Riding a motorbike to the first date, he saw her 'looking at him disdainfully' and wanted to go home early.

Netizens are buzzing about the situation where a young man rode a motorbike to his first date, the girl just called, and after 30 minutes, hurriedly left early with the excuse of having an appointment.

Riding a motorbike to the first date, he felt like she 'looked at him with contempt' and then left early - Illustration: TTD

Self-conscious about riding a motorbike, the girl was engrossed in her phone on the first date.

Specifically, a guy was so shocked by his first date that he posted on a youth group with more than 134,000 members asking for advice.

The guy asked what everyone thought when the guy rode a Wave motorbike on the first date. He was confused when he rode this motorbike to the date, while the girl spent most of the date on her phone.

During the 30-minute meeting, the girl occasionally looked at the other person "with a look of contempt", then said goodbye with the excuse that she had another appointment. "What does that mean?", the boy asked.

Three days after the article was posted, social media users continue to comment.

Many words of encouragement were sent to the author of the post by "passers-by". Many people believe that the type of vehicle you drive certainly does not affect a person's value. "It's because you haven't met the right person yet. Just think that you're not compatible, there will be someone who is compatible," said account Cong Tuan.

First impressions on a date are very important - Illustration: KIM SANG

Some congratulated, others bluntly said "that's right"

Regarding the above topic, in addition to comments that encourage and motivate men to stop being self-conscious in a neutral way, the online community was immediately divided into two extremes.

Many people left comments on the article, sending congratulations when the guy escaped a "mining machine" (implying that the girl was materialistic, looking for a boyfriend to dig for gold - PV).

Tom Tran wrote: "Congratulations on eliminating an unworthy person. You should drive a cheap car, wear cheap clothes, use a cheap phone... to avoid female miners." This comment attracted nearly 1,000 likes, along with many comments agreeing with the thought.

In addition to the issue of what vehicle to take, Nguyen Hoang Bach's account believes that on the first date, the girl just sits there playing with her phone and looks "contemptuously" is enough reason for the guy to leave.

Therefore, Hoang Bach thinks that the fact that the two of them did not go further is a good thing, because getting to know, dating and loving someone who judges others by their appearance will not last long.

At the other extreme, many accounts explain the girl's attitude as somewhat understandable.

According to Tran Cuong, outward appearance is important, that is the truth. First impressions always leave a deep impression. Therefore, Cuong thinks that the first thing to do when meeting someone is to be well-prepared and polite. Even if you are driving a cheap car, it must be clean and attractive.

Dang Tu said that even though a car is a means of transportation, if your girlfriend has a preference for "luxury cars" which means different tastes, it should be respected.

Thai Trong Nghia account bluntly said: "People criticize me for riding a motorbike, why not!".

An anonymous account claiming to be a girl shared that she spent hours putting on makeup and preparing beautiful clothes, but because she met the wrong person (a motorbike), her mood was down. "Even though I told myself not to judge others by their appearance, I still can't get rid of the feeling of disappointment," this girl wrote.

Source: https://tuoitre.vn/di-xe-so-den-buoi-hen-ho-dau-chang-thay-nang-nhin-khinh-khinh-doi-ve-som-2024112723494764.htm