Riding a motorbike to a date and getting 'looked at with disdain': A good sign to... 'cut it off' from the start

Most of the feedback from readers sent to Tuoi Tre Online about the article 'Riding a manual motorbike to the first date, the guy saw the girl looking at him disdainfully, asking to go home early' said that riding a manual motorbike is normal, not something to be ashamed of.

Most Vietnamese people are using motorbikes as a means of transportation - Illustration: MAU TRUONG

It's normal, nothing to be ashamed of.

A young man had just gone on his first date, but was so shocked that he posted online asking for advice. He said that when they first met, the girl was almost entirely on her phone throughout the 30-minute date.

He could only occasionally see his partner's face clearly. The girl occasionally looked back "with a look of contempt", then said goodbye with the excuse of having another appointment.

From then on, the guy wondered, somewhat self-consciously thinking that because he came by Wave, the date turned out like that.

However, in the opinion of reader thien***, this is normal. It's better for the girlfriend to be straightforward about her opinion on the first date, "to end it to avoid trouble".

Reader nicknamed Banh Bao thinks there is nothing to be ashamed of when driving your own car, wearing your own clothes, and spending your own money. "There are young people who drive cars their parents bought, wear clothes their parents paid for, spend money their parents gave them, but never earn a penny in their entire lives. After getting married, do the two of you ask your parents for money?", reader Banh Bao wrote.

A Tuoi Tre Online reader named Cao Thu believes that each pot has its own lid. The fact that the girl is "contemptuous" is also a sign that the pot and lid are not compatible. "Nowadays, girls like men who are "well-off", even if they are 20-30 years older than them! They seek security. Don't blame them, but strive for it," Cao Thu wrote.

Many readers think that riding a motorbike on a first date is normal - Illustration: CONG TRIEU

The Consequences of Learning a Lavish Lifestyle Online

Reader Anh Vu believes that the view that "good wood is better than good paint" was only true 50 years ago. Nowadays, most young people prioritize form, then content.

"Philosophy has taught that matter determines consciousness. But here your girlfriend only looks at the present, and maybe she sees that you don't have any material that will form in the future," reader Phan Trong Hieu wrote.

Reader Minh Tran frankly called the above story the consequence of following the lavish lifestyles on social networks. It makes viewers have a mentality of favoring the rich over the poor, which is very dangerous for society.

However, another reader thinks that the girl's search for a rich boyfriend is just like the boy's request to find a beautiful girl, and there is nothing wrong with that. What should be criticized is that the girl lacks subtlety, tact, and wisdom. "In today's money-driven society, there are still families and people who live very discreetly, literally hiding their wealth," this reader shared.

Source: https://tuoitre.vn/di-xe-so-den-buoi-hen-ho-bi-nhin-khinh-khinh-tin-hieu-tot-de-gut-bai-tu-dau-20241128215015171.htm