Husband had an affair and married his daughter's tutor, then divorced 2 months later to reunite with his ex-wife.

GĐXH - The man, who already had a family, had an affair with his daughter's tutor. Many years later, the development of this relationship still confuses outsiders.

The incident happened in Huli District, Xiamen City, Fujian Province (China). The local court accepted a divorce case, the plaintiff and defendant had divorced, then remarried and finally wanted to divorce again, according to Sohu.

What is more puzzling is that in the first divorce, the husband married his daughter’s tutor, divorced her 2 months later and remarried his ex-wife. Since then, a man, two women and their two children have lived under the same roof for 6 years.

The cheating husband married his daughter's tutor, divorced her two months later and remarried his ex-wife. Since then, a man, two women and their two children have been living under one roof. Illustrative photo

It all started 18 years ago. In 2002, Mrs. Tran and Mr. Vuong got married and had a daughter named Tieu Tieu (character's name has been changed).

In 2010, when Xiao Xiao was 8 years old, her parents hired a tutor named Wu to teach her English. However, Mr. Wang and Ms. Wu gradually developed feelings for each other and later the tutor became pregnant.

In June 2013, Ms. Tran and Mr. Vuong divorced.

In July of the same year, Mr. Vuong registered his marriage with Ms. Ngo, but only 2 months later they divorced.

In October 2013, Mr. Vuong remarried his ex-wife.

In February 2014, Mr. Vuong and Ms. Ngo's son was born.

What is confusing is that after Mr. Vuong remarried Ms. Tran, he brought Ms. Ngo and their son to live with him. The five of them lived together for the next 6 years.

In court, Tieu Tieu painfully recounted that her mother (Mrs. Tran) had a hard time raising her child alone, and because she wanted her daughter to have a complete family, she agreed to remarry her father. But Tieu Tieu could not have imagined that her father would bring her stepmother and younger brother back to live with them.

What made Ms. Tieu Tieu even more dissatisfied was that they took over the master bedroom and forced her and her mother to move to another room.

Ms. Ngo even threw away clothes and chased Ms. Tran and her children out of the house many times, but they did not accept. In the end, all five people had to live together.

Finally, when her daughter turned 18 in May 2020, Ms. Tran filed a lawsuit in court, requesting a second divorce from Mr. Vuong and moving out of that house. She accused her husband of having an affair and deceiving her and her daughter.

Should I go back to my ex-husband for the sake of my children?

Before remarrying, you need to make sure that your understanding of marriage has changed and improved. Illustration photo

To remarry happily, women need to weigh and measure carefully, based on many factors, first of all need to answer these 4 questions:

1. Why remarry?

Thinking about this question, perhaps the answer of many women is that they want to have their own support so that their family is complete and their children have a good environment to develop.

This is actually the purpose of remarriage, but for this purpose, women need to think a little, because the two people still have feelings for each other or because life is too tiring and they need someone to cling to.

If two people still love each other very much, the possibility of happiness after remarriage is relatively high.

If you choose to remarry just for the sake of living together, you must know in your heart that such a reunion is difficult and must adjust accordingly to your life needs after remarriage.

2. Has the conflict in the divorce been resolved?

Because of remarriage, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts in the previous divorce. Have they been resolved by both parties and how do they perceive the situation after a breakup?

Remarriage is not a matter of both parties being willing to start over. Attention must be paid to the conflicts that led to the previous divorce. If not resolved, the marriage will become very cold after a while.

If you want a happy remarriage, you need to discuss the previous problem frankly with your partner.

3. Has your understanding of marriage and relationships changed?

There are many problems in marriage and conflicts arise that make the couple's feelings suffocated, to the point of being unbearable.

For example, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problem is the cause of divorce, but one side needs to discuss it, the other side feels it is not necessary. Obviously, the two people do not have a common voice to solve the problem from the root, it is best not to remarry.

These are all immature attitudes, of course this attitude reflects a loose lifestyle and lack of deep understanding of marriage.

Before remarrying, you need to make sure that your understanding of marriage has changed and improved. This will better ensure the quality of the relationship after remarriage.

4. Has the pain of divorce healed?

This is an issue that needs special attention from the perspective of women, because remarriage does not mean that it can cure the consequences of divorce for women;

For example, you were betrayed in your previous marriage. You are hurt and doubtful about your partner's feelings as well as your own.

So, before you remarry, you need to be clear with yourself about whether you are truly free from the hurt.

If you are ready to repair your past relationship, give your partner a chance to start over, and allow yourself to let go of grudges, you are ready to remarry.

Your inner hurt is healed, your mood after remarriage can calm down again.

If you remarry with hurt, you will be very vulnerable again, because your heart will be very sensitive at this time, even if the other person has made an effort, you will hardly believe that you will be happy.

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