GĐXH - You should avoid doing these 7 things if you don't want to be judged as someone with low EQ.
Show negative attitude
Parties are a time for people to enjoy fun and harmony.
However, some people, due to work pressure, family conflicts... bring negative moods when going to other people's houses.
These emotions can be unintentionally revealed, making hosts and guests feel uncomfortable.
People with high emotional intelligence will know how to control their emotions, maintain a positive, optimistic attitude to create a warm, happy atmosphere.
People with high emotional intelligence will know how to control their emotions, maintain a positive, optimistic attitude to create a warm, happy atmosphere during meals. Illustration photo
Bringing someone along without notice
Don't invite people if you're not the host. Whether they're acquaintances or strangers to the host, even if your intention is just to add more people and have more fun, it's not a good idea.
Because when they decided to organize, they were mentally prepared for who to invite and who to call.
It's best not to suggest, and certainly not to actively invite others to those meals.
This will create an awkward atmosphere. The homeowner will also feel very confused and uncomfortable in their own space.
According to expert Anna Bruk, if you want to bring more people to the party, you should inform and ask the host for permission. Otherwise, you should respect the host.
Bring pets that are difficult to control
Many people like to bring pets into their homes as a way of showing affection.
However, if pets are too aggressive or difficult to control, they can be dangerous and make homeowners and guests feel uncomfortable.
Large dogs or overly active pets can be intimidating to others.
People with high emotional intelligence will only bring gentle, manageable pets and make sure they are trained before going to other people's homes.
Bad review of the meal
When invited to dine at someone else's home, people with low EQ often make negative comments about the food.
This action can damage the relationship between the two parties because it is a denial of the kindness and hospitality of the host.
"Everyone has their own preferences. Disliking a dish has nothing to do with taste or quality, it could just be that it doesn't suit your taste," says Anna Bruk.
She gave the example of vegetarians who like green vegetables and are not interested in meat and fish dishes.
So if invited to a meal, do not comment on the quality or appearance of the food. This is an act of showing sophistication and respect for others.
When invited to dine at someone else's home, people with low EQ often make negative comments about the food. Illustration photo
Let children be too naughty
Children are innocent, lively and generally welcomed. However, if they are too naughty such as rummaging through things, making noise or teasing too much, they can make the homeowner feel awkward.
These behaviors not only damage property but also affect the general atmosphere.
Parents with high emotional intelligence will teach their children to behave politely, follow the rules when visiting other people's homes, and help children have fun without causing trouble.
Overshadow the host
Even though they are guests, some people deliberately choose the center position to sit. This is extremely rude and impolite.
This action is not only disrespectful to the host but also shows that you are a tactless and insensitive person.
Not only did they choose the central seat, some people also bragged and talked about their achievements throughout the meeting.
They don't care or pay attention to the host's feelings, but only want everyone to focus on their own "performance".
Additionally, you should also choose appropriate clothing when attending this meal.
People with high EQ will not choose outfits that are too outstanding, especially more outstanding than the host. That behavior will show that you are a person lacking in sophistication.
Come empty handed
When invited to someone's house for dinner, you often hear the very familiar phrase "no need to bring anything".
But this does not mean you should come empty-handed. A small gift is a way for you to show your gratitude to the homeowner.
A small gift is a way for you to show your gratitude to the homeowner. Illustration photo
"Even though they don't use the gift to evaluate the relationship, this action is an expression of respect and politeness in behavior," shared Dr. Anna Bruk, a psychologist at the University of Mannheim.
In this case, the host doesn't really care about your gift. What they remember is your attitude.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/7-loi-nguoi-eq-thap-thuong-mac-khi-den-nha-nguoi-khac-an-172250218123143818.htm
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