I told you to go build with someone else.

Thang's ex-wife (Ngot) confirmed that she and he had gone through a series of difficulties and hardships when starting their career.

At the beginning of the article, Anh Pham (also known as Nam) said that since she was young, she had a passion for art and was discouraged by her family, but her belief became stronger when she met Thang: "Thang is such a good musician that the first time I heard Thang timidly sing his music on the guitar of the cafe, I had to exclaim "Let's form a band". Thang formed a band with Nam Anh and Tuan, two close friends at that time, and named the band Sweet".

Thang (Ngot) and Anh Pham when they were still together. (Photo: TL)

The couple experienced many difficulties in the early stages, when Thang was a freshman and Anh Pham had just graduated from university. However, Ngọt still tried to complete their first album with the help of many colleagues: "Thang composed, my brothers played the music, my friends at Rec room helped record, Dung drew the pictures, I designed, Tuyên at the printing house let us owe money for printing until we had enough to pay, mobilized family and friends to sit and bind each book of lyrics, and put each CD in the case". Although the product was so "homegrown", the surprising thing was that the album was sold out in just one evening. From then on, the band Ngọt began to take its first steps.

The couple's life was so difficult that Thang intended to quit his job to find another job. At that time, his ex-wife encouraged him: "I said it's okay, if it's really necessary, my mother will help, I just need to make music. Because my stubborn son is determined to prove that artists can earn money with their own talent, I have to work harder as a mother. Thang also understands that and knows how to be filial to my mother. There was a time when Thang woke up at 5am every morning to jog to Dong Xuan market to help her set up her stall and then went home to work."

Thang (Ngot) completely silent after a series of scandals. (Photo: FBNV)

"Thang has changed so much that I can't talk to him."

Talking about her relationship with Thang, Anh Pham said that she let him go 2 years ago: "I told him to go build a relationship with someone else, the child will always be his, but things just got worse and worse with many things I don't want to tell here. From that time on, I couldn't talk to him and realized that he was a Thang I didn't know at all."

Mr. Pham affirmed that the 10-year relationship and Thang's affection for Vung (the child of Mr. Pham and Thang (Ngot) - PV) prevented her from saying anything about what she considered extremely terrible in the past 2 years. "I only told the necessary people, which are family and close friends, so that if I asked now, there would definitely be many other victims. I have cut off all those who witnessed that degradation and turned a blind eye. I also did not get close enough to know what kind of person Thang was, but when people hurt my child, I had to act."

At the end of the article, Anh Pham shared that she always respected and admired Thang, but in the version 2 years ago. But now, she doesn't pay any attention or think about her ex-husband after the terrible things she has experienced.

Sharing about his mother's post on the evening of May 3, Anh Pham said: "My mother is a wonderful person. My childhood and my brother grew up witnessing her many times taking care of, helping, repairing, and building many different people like a mobile construction site. She worked tirelessly from 5am to 6pm every day, not only to raise me and my brother but also to help everyone around. I also looked at that to live, later when I met someone in trouble, I always wanted to help them wholeheartedly.

But later I learned that I should only help those who want to be helped. If Thang reached out, I thought it wouldn't be my turn to help, because Thang had done many good things in his life, and I knew there would be many people who would take care of him. Vung has always been proud of his father, and I don't want to take that away. I hope that in the future my children will have the opportunity to be proud again."

After the article was published, Dan Viet reporters contacted Thang (Ngot) but received no response. Before that, when the series of scandals broke out, he said he would not respond to the media. Other members of the band also refused to talk about Ngot's breakup.

On the evening of April 27, Thang (Ngọt) caused a stir when he posted a series of confusing statuses, including a post asking for money from fans. A rapper's post, which was said to be aimed at Vu Dinh Trong Thang, further damaged his image. The organizers of Thang's two shows in May both announced their cancellations, and Ngot's major fan groups also changed their names, announced their disbandment, or temporarily suspended their activities.

Source: https://danviet.vn/vo-cu-thang-ngot-chinh-thuc-len-tieng-sau-loat-lum-xum-toi-noi-anh-cu-di-xay-dap-voi-nguoi-khac-20240504140244906.htm