I used to think that your love story with Mr. Vu was admirable when you were together for over 20 years and had 4 children together, together building a name to help Trung Nguyen become an influential business in the world . However, I could not imagine why this breakdown happened, what was the real reason or motive for you to decide to divorce, withdraw the petition, and then continue to appeal?
- That was the incident after Mr. Vu fasted for 49 days in 2013. From that point on, I saw that my husband no longer cared about the family, did not allow me to worship my father and grandfather. Mr. Vu's mother did not allow him to worship his ancestors. The family fell into the tragic situation today only because Mr. Vu was not treated in time. His spirit has been "poisoned" for many years by a group of people. I was afraid that Trung Nguyen would fall into the hands of others, so I tried to find a way to prevent it.
So how was your life with Mr. Vu before?
- Before that, my family was very happy. He loved his children very much. No matter how busy he was at work, he still spent time with his family on the weekends. The whole family went to a resort far from the city and father and son played together. The family was very warm and happy at that time. The youngest child always had an iPad to record the family at that time. Up to this moment, after many events, she still refuses to change to another iPad, only using that iPad to still see the same warm and happy family images every day.
The same goes for work, he seems to trust me completely. He and I work together very well. We both have clear and perfect assignments. We understand each other very well and both want to maintain our family on that foundation and move forward. It is true that with both me and Mr. Vu, Trung Nguyen was very strong at that time.
Can you share when you and Mr. Vu first met? What do you admire most about Mr. Vu?
- In 1994, when I was working at the 108 switchboard - Gia Lai Province Post Office , Mr. Vu called the switchboard to ask for information. Until now, I still believe that that phone call was the fate that brought us together. That day, I had to patiently answer a series of his questions.
I admired Mr. Vu very much in the past and he was a wonderful husband, a businessman who I thought was very talented. He devoted all his efforts to the country. As a wife in the family, I have always been grateful to him. Until now. I think that as a wife, a life partner, I have the responsibility to help him.
Everyone admits that Mr. Vu is a very good man in business, work, and a person with great aspirations. But in everyday life, as a husband and father, what is he like? Does he give in and indulge his wife?
- Normally, I am a yielding woman. There is nothing to discuss about a woman losing to her husband. I think it is normal for a wife to lose to her husband. When I go out, I am willing to step back to let my husband shine, give up all the best things to my husband, good for the family's image. That has been clearly shown in my family since the past, until now, even though there has been such a big incident, wherever I go, I still want to preserve the family image, protect Mr. Vu's image, always say good things about him because I myself still want to preserve that good image. More than anyone else, I also want to be reunited, so yielding to each other is extremely necessary in family life.
Does Mr. Vu often help you with household chores, or does he devote all his attention to work?
- He does spend time with his family, but not too much.
Does he often buy you gifts?
- Usually on my birthday, Mr. Vu personally buys flowers. He often buys big baskets, about 100 flowers. I especially love roses so he planted a whole rose garden for me at home. He cares for me on all holidays. He still loves me like the first days we met. He often puts me first like the first days we met.
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