Praising children also requires communication skills.

Praising and showing off your children's achievements is a legitimate desire of parents. However, in order for praise to bring positive emotions, it is also necessary to pay attention to some communication principles.

In daily communication and especially on social networks today, it is not difficult to encounter situations where parents express praise and pride in their children.

In many cases, when parents praise their children, they encounter reactions from their own children. (Source: congluan)

That is a real need, a legitimate wish that comes from love, from the happiness of parents when they see their efforts in caring for and educating have now paid off.

From a communications perspective, there are some interesting suggested principles that help praise children bring positive emotions to all parties involved.

Secure Communication

In the era of rapid scientific and technological development, data information is extremely important.

If parents take photos of their children's certificates, transcripts, report cards, certificates, diplomas, etc. without blurring their children's personal information (name, school, class, address, etc.), they will unintentionally create a risk of information insecurity. Bad guys can collect this personal information for harmful purposes.

Many parents argue that parents "only post in friends mode, not public mode" so they can be completely assured.

In reality, the mechanism of information dissemination is not that simple. Acquaintances can take a screenshot of the post and then continue to share it in some other situation, accidentally or intentionally, that we cannot know.

When posting any information on social networks, it means that we cannot control where that information will spread, who can access this information. Therefore, safe communication must always be a principle that needs to be maintained.

Motivational communication

It is easy to see that in many cases of praising children, parents encounter reactions, not only from the listener and reader, but also from the character of the story.

Many children feel embarrassed and complain when they are (or are?) praised excessively, even excessively, by their parents.

Obviously, if children feel embarrassed in front of others when praised by their parents, or even feel uncomfortable, then the parents' act of praising their children has had an adverse effect on the children's psychology.

After all, praising children is to acknowledge their efforts and, more importantly, to motivate them to continue practicing and striving for higher goals.

The principle of motivational communication is to praise children so that they feel proud, develop their will, continue to make efforts, and not rest on their laurels.

Media sharing and inspiration

To avoid praising your child too much and causing boredom in the listener or reader, the content of the praise should be inspirational information.

Parents can tell about their children's journey to achieve the success they have today. What challenges, obstacles, and difficulties have they encountered? How have they practiced problem-solving and decision-making skills? What effective learning methods have they learned and applied, and what training secrets have they used to achieve the expected success.

Information about the journey to your dream is always more attractive and inspiring than simple information about the destination.

At the same time, this is also suggestive and reference information for listeners and readers, making praising children more meaningful, a lesson in sharing experiences, rather than simply bragging.

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