Bang Kieu and his ex-wife - Trizzie Phuong Trinh - are a rare couple in the Vietnamese entertainment industry who still maintain a close relationship and support each other after their divorce. Notably, the singer's ex-wife is also very close to his new girlfriend and stepchild.
Sharing in a livestream with singer Cam Tho, Trizzie Phuong Trinh said that she and Bang Kieu had been divorced for several years, but the audience still did not believe it because they saw that the two were too intimate: "Bang Kieu and I have been divorced for 2 or 3 years, I still post pictures of the two of us eating with our children, sharing intimate stories.
The audience saw that and said that we were acting, pretending to be close to each other after breaking up. It's been 11 years now, we're still close, if we "acted" for that many years, we would have won an award for best actor."
Trizzie Phuong Trinh and Bang Kieu still maintain a close relationship after their divorce.
The female singer also said that when "the fate is over", she does not hold grudges about the past because she wants to be friends with her ex-husband: "Everyone has seen that, when I maintain a friendship with my ex-husband, I only gain and lose nothing.
When my ex-husband and I were friends, the children still had a father, the new family and the old family got along well, and both sides were happy. I also did not put pressure on my ex-husband to let him come back to see the children.
There are many cases where the mother tells her child bad things about the father, making the child think that the father is the one who destroyed the family's happiness, and from then on the child will hate his father forever.
Trizzie Phuong Trinh affirmed: "Maintaining a friendship with my ex-husband, I only gain and lose nothing."
Trizzie Phuong Trinh not only maintains a good relationship with Bang Kieu, she also does not share the reason for the divorce with her children because she thinks it is her parents' private matter, and her children do not need to worry: "Until now, my children still do not know why their parents divorced.
When they were young, I told them I would tell them when they grew up. Now that they are grown up and ask about their parents' divorce, I tell them that their lives are still happy and they lack nothing, so why do they need to know the reason for their parents' divorce? So they don't care anymore."
In particular, Trizzie Phuong Trinh actively played the role of connecting her children with Bang Kieu's stepchildren: "Recently when we returned to Vietnam, we met baby Bently, Bang Kieu's child.
Even though the children have talked and met each other on the phone many times, Colin (the second child of Trizzie Phuong Trinh and Bang Kieu) still has a bit of distance because he has a very strong personality. I kept hugging Bently and putting him in my arms. Bently is very cute, so gradually Colin also loved him."
The female singer is willing to connect the feelings between her children and Bang Kieu's step-son.
The female singer commented: "The role of a mother is very important, whatever the mother directs, the children will follow. If the mother wants her children to be close to their half-siblings, then the children will be close.
If the mother just says, "That's not your brother," the child will have negative thoughts about his father's new child."
Trizzie Phuong Trinh also always focuses on preserving Bang Kieu's image in the eyes of her children: "I always say that dad loves each child differently. When Bently is still young, dad will spend more time with him. Dad has also taken care of the children for many years now.
Moreover, I always tell my children that they can see their father whenever they want. I only say good things about their father, so they always trust him."
Trizzie Phuong Trinh's civilized and humane views on how to treat her ex-husband received much admiration and agreement from the audience.
An Nguyen
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