GĐXH - Between love and hate, she finally used her kindness and tolerance to take care of her ex-husband who had caused her pain for a long time.
Recently, a woman in Shenyang, Liaoning province has become a hot search topic on Chinese social media and is called the "great first wife".
Ms. Yu (31 years old, daughter of this couple) said that her parents are both over 60 years old, they divorced 20 years ago because her husband had many affairs.
Although she could not forgive her ex-husband for his mistakes, Yu's mother still kept in touch with him for the sake of her daughter and her relatives. Yu's father later remarried, and her mother raised her daughter alone.
In the summer of 2023, Yu's father went to a class reunion in another province. Due to drinking too much alcohol, he suffered a cerebral hemorrhage.
He was taken to the hospital in time and his life was saved, but he was paralyzed on one side and had to be treated for more than half a year before being discharged.
Yu immediately returned from Guangdong, intending to bring his father home to be taken care of by his current wife. But when the father and son arrived home, they found out that his new wife had left and blocked all communication.
Yu is making her living in Guangdong, thousands of kilometers away from Shenyang. " In such a situation, I don't know what to do," she said.
She surveyed several nursing homes but felt that none of them could provide the care she expected for her father. With work on one side and a seriously ill father on the other, Yu didn't know what to do.
While talking to her mother, Yu expressed her concerns. She did not expect her mother to take responsibility for taking care of her father.
Between love and hate, Yu's mother finally used her kindness and tolerance to take care of her ex-husband who had caused her pain for a long time.
All because she loves and worries about her daughter.
Yu's mother returned to take care of her husband even though they had been divorced for 20 years. Photo: Sina
Every day, she not only takes care of her ex-husband's food and rest, but also takes him to physical therapy and rehabilitation.
To help her ex-husband recover, she also researched massage techniques for paralyzed people.
Thanks to her careful care, Yu's father's health improved day by day.
Yu said that after his parents divorced, they still kept in touch for the sake of their children and relatives. Seeing his ex-wife return to take care of him, Yu's father was deeply moved and regretted his actions in the past.
The precious characteristics of a good wife, men will regret it for life if they miss it
Sharing weal and woe
Go through hardships with you, cheer you on when you fail, congratulate you when you succeed, support you when you build a career, be there when you are sad, don't abandon you when you are down and out...
No matter what happens in life, she never forgets her first love and always cares for you.
Know how to handle mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship properly
No matter how successful a man is, once he has to face the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, he will have a headache. It is difficult to defend either side, between filial piety and love, and many times he has to endure.
A good wife will know how to properly handle the relationship with her mother-in-law, not letting her husband be caught in the middle, not making him miserable or forcing him to choose between his mother and his wife.
Faithful
Fidelity is the most basic standard for every person entering marriage. A good wife will always be devoted to her marriage, will not love anyone or betray her husband.
Understand and love your husband
A good wife will understand the hardships you have to go through, will cherish the money you earn, never waste it, will love you, bring you the greatest comfort and also advise you not to work too hard, just work hard and make an effort.
No matter how many people a woman leads outside or how high her position is, when she comes home she should still let her husband be the boss, and be a "good wife" and a strong supporter for her husband. Illustrative photo
Know how to keep honor for husband
No matter how many people a woman leads outside or how high her position is, when she comes home she should still let her husband be the boss, and be a "good wife" and a strong supporter for her husband.
Especially in front of outsiders, the wife needs to keep her husband's face and dignity, not to accuse him of any crimes, not to look down on him or make things difficult for him in public.
Responsible
Some say if you want to hold a man, first hold his stomach.
This saying is not without reason, a good wife needs to have basic cooking skills, be able to prepare warm meals for the family, "go to the living room, go to the kitchen", such a woman will be loved by her husband.
Know how to think for others
When conflicts arise, you need to know how to put yourself in the other person's shoes to think, don't just blame each other.
A good wife will not try to "fight" with her husband when there is a conflict, but will face, analyze and solve the problem in the most peaceful way. "A harmonious family brings prosperity"!
Know how to take care of family
If a woman knows how to take care of her family, she will always think of you in everything, this means she is a good wife.
In this world, no one is "perfect". Of course, before wanting their partner to become a good wife, men also need to make themselves a good man.
To have a happy family, it needs the efforts of both husband and wife. If one is missing, the whole family is not complete!
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