Leaving showbiz but still living well thanks to real estate
- What made you decide to return to the series of projects "The Third Party Is Not at Fault" and "Flower King" after a period of absence?
Since 2019, I have been almost “in hiding”. Each stage of life will have different priorities. When everything is in order, I feel comfortable again.
When I accept an invitation, I don't care if the role is big or small, only my contribution to the project is important. Even if the role is small or supporting, if the director, producer, and audience accept it, I am happy. Luckily, the films I participate in are loved by everyone, so I have more motivation.
Actress Thanh Thuy.
- 5 years away from showbiz, how is your life?
I rearranged my role as a woman in the family, especially taking care of the children. During all that time, I never felt like I had to trade off or lose anything. On the contrary, I was happy because not everyone has the opportunity to make the same choice as me.
I thank God that everything has been fine for the past few years. Although not too rich, my family lives comfortably every day, without worrying about food and money. In my free time, I improve my knowledge about society and marriage, besides maintaining my passion for learning art and business.
- You and your husband have a good economy, so even though you haven't worked for 5 years, you're still comfortable with money?
In addition to making films, my family has invested in real estate for the past few years. We have additional income from renting out houses and buying and selling real estate. I think this is the luck of both my husband and I, because not everyone has the “luck” to do well and make a profit from this field. I am not richer than anyone else, but at least I have a house, a car, some money to maintain the company and for emergencies... that is enough.
The actor has changed positively after 5 years leaving showbiz, focusing on his family.
- What has changed for you in the past 5 years?
The version of me now is definitely much better than before. In the past, I was like many other women, only concerned with money, family life, raising children to study... Now, I am keeping a giving mindset, instead of just expecting to receive. When bad thoughts arise, I consciously control them.
Silence makes me appreciate everyday moments, and life is therefore more quality. Now I feel satisfied with everything, from my children, my partner to my relationships.
I also devoted all my energy to taking care of Tet - my second son. My son has attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and is slow to speak, so he needs the attention and care of his parents.
- How have you taken care of and accompanied your child in his treatment over the years?
As parents, everyone wants their children to grow up smart and intelligent. However, each family has its own circumstances, I have no other choice.
Over the past 5 years, I have reduced 80% of my workload to be with my child. I teach him little by little, from hygiene, eating to sleeping... so that he can form good reflexes in daily life. My husband and I take our child to a school for special children and hire a tutor to tutor him at home for 1-2 hours a day.
I studied and researched documents so that I could teach my child myself. Mr. Thinh and I asked around and looked for the most suitable treatment regimen for our child. My husband and I's joy is simply seeing our child getting better every day.
Luckily, baby Tet is now attached to his mother and shows affection. Seeing him happy, healthy, and making progress, I feel that all the efforts over the past 4-5 years have been completely worth it.
Weak, mental crisis because of son's illness
Thanh Thuy devotes all her time to her second son - Tet - who has a speech delay.
- The pressure of taking care of a sick child, having to worry about housework and work, has there ever been a time when you felt helpless and in crisis?
The first stage was very difficult and stressful for the whole family. We were surprised and then gradually learned to accept and adapt. During the day, the child just sat and played alone, not interacting with anyone. At night, the child did not sleep, cried and screamed, keeping the whole family awake. During that period, I had to go out to work every day, so everything became more stressful. For a long time, I was weak and in crisis, both mentally and physically.
A year later, when Tet’s condition improved, I was able to let go of the burden. To achieve positive results, all members worked hard. We played, studied, and slept with our child every day. The family practiced praying, reading the Bible, and finding spiritual support. Thanks to that, we felt peaceful and thought positively instead of being overwhelmed by sadness.
- How did Mr. Duc Thinh share and accompany you during that period?
My husband encourages, supports, and is my spiritual support. We both put family and children as our top priority. For example, when I stay home to take care of the children and run the house, Thinh goes out to work for the company.
Mr. Thinh has some bad habits that are not as perfect as I want. Over time, I have seen him change positively, clearly aware of family happiness.
Recently, my eldest son - Ca Phe and I had a little conflict, so we got angry with each other. I told Mr. Thinh to pay attention to the eldest son, because I had to focus on taking care of the youngest.
Mr. Thinh said: "During this period, I love my child less than I love you because you are the person who has been with me the longest."
I was happy and touched when I heard that from him. I believe he understands and feels the hardships his wife has gone through to make the family what it is today. On the contrary, I have been by my husband's side through every difficulty he has encountered.
16 years of marriage of Thanh Thuy - Duc Thinh couple.
- After 16 years together, what does marriage mean to you now?
We have come to this stage not only out of love, but also out of marital duty and responsibility. Thinh and I try to fulfill our duties to each other, knowing how to look out for each other to maintain our family.
The hustle and bustle of life sometimes wears down and exhausts everything, including love. The romance in marriage thus fades over the years. I think that is obvious and inevitable in a marital relationship. It is like a newly bought item that we treasure, but after using it for a long time, it becomes normal.
It is important that we are aware of what is important in this life. When we are angry or have conflicts, I remind Mr. Thinh and vice versa. We hope to love each other completely no matter what we go through.
- Thanh Thuy - Duc Thinh used to be a hot couple in the Vietnamese cinema industry, what are your plans for the future?
Over time, we have learned and observed the market. Many famous faces have become successful and made their own mark. But my wife and I believe in our own experience and position, and have never put pressure on ourselves to compare ourselves with others.
At this time, I want to make a film that not only brings normal entertainment, but also has depth. How to make the audience watch the film, they sob, worry about it. That is the big challenge that has made us strive for the past 3 years. My wife and I's new project will be released next year, hopefully it will be well received.
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