Money issues in marriage are difficult to resolve. If the problem is not handled by just the couple, it will create an even more complicated situation.
Recently, a story shared on Chinese social media has caused a lot of heated discussions.
Accordingly, a daughter-in-law named Truong was married into the Lam family many years ago. Recently, the Lam family received a large sum of money because of the land being cleared and compensated.
At the same time, Ms. Zhang’s birth family encountered some difficulties. She was so worried about her birth family that she could not sleep or eat. Therefore, she secretly withdrew 3 million yuan (about 10 billion VND) to help her parents solve the problem as soon as possible.
She did all of this secretly without consulting her husband's family, even though the money belonged to her husband's family and not just her and her husband. Perhaps this woman thought she would soon pay back the money before everything was exposed.
Ms. Truong transferred money from her husband's family to her parents.
However, such luck did not happen. The Lam family later discovered that a large sum of money in the house had been significantly reduced. In the end, Ms. Truong had to confess that she had secretly taken money back to her parents. She herself did not expect that this behavior would cause her marriage to fall apart so quickly.
After her daughter-in-law's confession, Ms. Truong's mother-in-law was extremely angry. She thought that this behavior was really disrespectful to her family and completely destroyed the trust in her son's marriage.
Ms. Truong's husband could not say anything either, he was so disappointed that he did not want to argue loudly.
Ms. Truong's mother-in-law could not accept her daughter-in-law's behavior. She then bluntly declared: "Get a divorce, this family does not accept a daughter-in-law like that."
This incident not only revealed the financial and emotional entanglement in the family but also raised the question of trust and respect in marriage. Ms. Truong was completely wrong when she secretly withdrew money from her husband's family and sent it to her parents' house without asking anyone's opinion or at least discussing it with her husband. That arbitrary action made the fault entirely hers and she could no longer defend herself.
The marriage ended because of money.
Even after that, Ms. Truong tried to say that she would pay back the money as soon as possible, but that was not enough to calm the anger in her husband's family. Her husband asked if she was sure that he would not stand up to support and help his wife's family in difficult times, so she did so secretly, but Ms. Truong could not answer. This made him even more disappointed.
In the end, her marriage ended because of her behavior of bringing money back to her mother's house.
There are many such stories in life. Money in the family can easily create many big problems. We just hope that no matter what the situation is, the people involved will be really sober to solve the problem. Remember that when it comes to money, you must be careful and treat it with the utmost respect.
Many Chinese women decide not to get married.
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