On a youth forum, the story of a girl being "exposed" by her future brother-in-law for refusing to wash dishes or help clean up when meeting her boyfriend's family is becoming a topic attracting attention.
The younger sister wrote: "The story is that my brother brought his girlfriend home to meet his parents. My mother and I prepared rice and food in advance in the afternoon so that my brother and his girlfriend could come home and eat. The whole family ate normally, until they finished eating. My brother's girlfriend said, 'I'm done eating,' then went to the living room to sit and drink water without saying a word about helping clean up the dishes or anything. I was very surprised by my brother's girlfriend's attitude at this point.
My mother is gentle so she told me to just go sit and rest, leave the dishes there and I and my sister will clean them up. After that, my brother's girlfriend said she was craving milk tea and asked my brother to go buy some, so he went and bought some too; then everything was left there for my mother, my father and I to clean up. Then my brother and his girlfriend went straight to his room to play, leaving me and my mother to clean up.
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Disgruntled with his brother's girlfriend, the author of the article declared that " he will definitely find a way to destroy her and not let her become his sister-in-law". The posted photo shows a girl sitting on a chair playing with her phone, while a middle-aged woman (her boyfriend's mother) is busy cleaning the house.
Immediately after being posted on a Facebook page with 3.3 million followers, this article quickly attracted nearly 10 thousand likes, nearly 4 thousand comments with fierce debates. Many comments harshly criticized the behavior of the girl when she first met her boyfriend's family. They said that if she didn't wash the dishes, she should at least help her family clean up.
"Young people nowadays are so strange, this is the minimum courtesy. Even though you are a guest, you still have to be considerate. No one forces you to do anything, but if you go straight to your room after eating, you will be punished"; "This is called lack of awareness. When you go to a friend's house, you have to know how to help clean up, let alone go to your lover's house. If you behave like that, people will judge the girl one and judge her parents ten times"; "This girl doesn't know what shyness is, even if her mother-in-law is easygoing, she should still have awareness"...
Some opinions say that the son also doesn't know how to behave: "The son is too indulgent with his girlfriend, asking for milk tea and she goes to buy it right away, and even takes her to the room, that's weak"; "The son doesn't help his parents at all, so his girlfriend will be the same, like a pot, like a lid"...
However, many netizens do not agree with the future sister-in-law's way of exposing, especially her declaration that she will interfere in her brother's love relationship. They think that even if a sister is upset, she should behave properly and should not look at her with an overly critical eye, nor should she take the matter of washing dishes or not too seriously: "My family has a very relaxed view of boys' lovers, I don't want my daughter to be pressured by washing dishes, cleaning and being scrutinized too much when she first meets her husband's family"; "I think you should just give your brother gentle advice, but not interfere too much, choosing a life partner is his choice, he will have to accept it"...
The story was posted 2 days ago but still continues to receive many comments and cause controversy.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/co-gai-ve-ra-mat-khong-rua-bat-con-doi-tra-sua-dan-mang-tranh-cai-du-doi-172240718085128442.htm
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