GĐXH - In fact, there are defects in children that are not really defects but are signs that the child has great potential in the future.
1. The child has all kinds of strange ideas.
These children are always full of strange ideas in their heads, making their parents feel like they are going nowhere. Illustration photo
These children are always full of strange ideas in their heads, making their parents feel confused and not knowing how to answer their seemingly endless questions. They even destroy things, one after another.
It can be frustrating for parents, but parents should be more patient with their children and not destroy their innocence, spontaneity and motivation. Because such children are creative.
Parents need to appreciate and encourage that trait in their children, it will help them a lot in the future.
2. Mischievous and troublemaking
It is normal for children to like to cause trouble and be naughty, and it even shows that they are active and like challenges. Illustration photo
Many parents like to say that their children are disobedient and like to cause trouble, not realizing that their children are just children.
It is normal for children to be mischievous and mischievous, and it even shows that they are active and like challenges.
Such children, although they make adults feel very annoyed, when they grow up, they will be very strong, dare to take on everything, like to explore and become more skillful and intelligent.
In addition, such children are quite cunning, it is difficult for others to bully them.
Many people say that good children are the most obedient and disciplined, but they don't understand that children who are too gentle are easily bullied, suffer many disadvantages, and have difficulty integrating into society later on.
You can teach your children to be honest and kind, but at the same time, you also need to teach them to dare to take risks and have a heart of discovery. Only then can they stand firm in society and have prospects for the future.
3. The "thick-skinned" child
Parents often have headaches when they scold their children many times, even using whips, but their children still "remain calm", not afraid or feel ashamed at all.
That makes parents extremely frustrated, not knowing whether the child is absorbing their teachings or not, gradually losing trust in the child.
On the contrary, those "thick-skinned", shameless children are much stronger, can stay calm, and do not collapse emotionally when something does not go their way.
During primary school, parents will surely have a headache with this personality trait of their child. But as the child grows up, such children will be more mentally stable in the face of pressure from studying and taking exams.
Later, when stepping out into society, opportunities are certainly not for those who are shy, embarrassed, easily offended, and who suffer and worry just from a harsh word from others.
So, a "thick-skinned" child is not necessarily a bad thing. Their future is very promising!
4. Stubborn and determined to do things your way
In fact, such children, although stubborn and disobedient, are not necessarily a bad thing. Illustrative photo
It is said that stubborn people easily go astray because they do not listen to advice. Many parents also do not like their children to be too stubborn and not listen to adults.
For example, you want them to major in one thing but they want to major in another, they completely ignore your advice and insist they are right.
In fact, such children, although stubborn and disobedient, are not necessarily a bad thing.
On the contrary, stubborn children are often more opinionated, they are good at making their own decisions, and do not like the interference of others.
Whatever we decide, we will definitely do it to the end.
Such children when grown up often have their own unique ideas when doing things, very independent and bright.
They dare to do, dare to make mistakes and dare to try again. Their shortcomings at first glance are also advantages, helping them persevere in everything, know how to set goals and not give up easily.
5. The child leads a group of classmates
Parents often worry that their children will "group" and be naughty and cause trouble at school. Especially if their child is the leader, it really makes parents worried.
If any trouble happens, surely your child will suffer the most serious consequences and be strongly condemned by teachers and other parents.
Perhaps parents do not know, although children are small, they also have their own social relationships.
If your child can lead a group of classmates, it means that your child makes other children admire and trust him. This is truly a child's ability, not something that happens for no reason.
Obviously such a child has confidence, courage, ability to work in a team and certainly in the future these abilities will be developed.
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