Buying her own house before getting married, the wife was upset with her mother-in-law's unreasonable and unacceptable request.

Knowing that her daughter-in-law had her own house, her mother-in-law made demands that she could not accept.

Family conflicts can come from things that we cannot foresee. Simply because it is so unreasonable, many people do not think it will actually happen to them.

Recently, a woman named Tieu Phuong posted an article sharing what happened at her house. Accordingly, she and her husband had just been married for a few months. Tieu Phuong herself is an extremely hard-working and diligent person. In the past, her family was not well-off, but after many years of working and saving, Tieu Phuong was able to buy a house to live in when she was still single.

Later, because she lived with her husband and got married, she decided to rent out that private house and move to her husband's place to live.

“Recently, due to a change in plans, I decided to take my house back and not rent it out anymore. My husband and I will live there. The house has 3 bedrooms in a famous and quite expensive residential area in Beijing (China). My husband and I plan to renovate the house, with a master bedroom, a room for the children and a study room because we always need to work at home. It was also from my extra evening jobs that I saved up the money to buy this house. Therefore, not having a study room is not acceptable,” Tieu Phuong said.

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She bought this apartment a few years before she got married. It was even before she met her husband. Therefore, it is completely Tieu Phuong's personal property.

However, after her mother-in-law found out, she made very strange requests regarding this house.

Right when the couple returned to their hometown to celebrate Tet, the mother-in-law held a family meeting and announced everything related to Tieu Phuong's private house.

She shared: “My mother-in-law probably heard from my husband that we would be moving to this apartment next month. Therefore, she loudly demanded that I reserve a room for my sister-in-law and brother-in-law because they were still renting a house. My mother-in-law said that I had to make three more sets of keys, one for my mother-in-law and the other two for my sister-in-law and brother-in-law so that when we moved in, it would be more convenient for them to move in. She said it very calmly and considered it obvious, which made me extremely angry. Of course, I did not agree, which made my mother-in-law angry and said that I was not allowed to live selfishly like this.

What's more, my husband thought my mother's opinion was completely appropriate. He said that the closer we lived together, the more he ignored my feelings. I knew that living together would cause a lot of trouble, and moreover, I wanted the house to be my own home, so I firmly refused to accept it. Now I'm being blamed by my husband's whole family. However, I don't care. The house is property I bought before marriage and I have the right to decide who can live with me."

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Immediately after the article was published, many people expressed their confusion with the mother-in-law's request. If she only wanted to stay temporarily and then rent a house, that would be fine. In this case, the brother and sister-in-law were clearly renting a house but still wanted to move into the sister-in-law's apartment. Meanwhile, the rooms in the house had already been planned for use.

The most noteworthy thing is the husband's agreement. There have been many conflicting stories related to sisters-in-law. Now the wife wants to have her own home and space, but the husband sides with his mother, thinking that living together is correct without paying attention to her opinions or feelings, which is very difficult to accept.

Most netizens support Tieu Phuong's determination and think that not living together is also a way to protect marital happiness. At the same time, she should not make a private key to the house for anyone other than the couple. It can lead to many awkward situations in the future.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/tu-mua-nha-rieng-truoc-khi-ket-hon-co-vo-buc-xuc-voi-yeu-cau-vo-ly-kho-chap-nhan-cua-me-chong-172250108142932117.htm