No matter what, if you are in a serious relationship with a long-term future, you must think about meeting your future husband’s parents. This is also a step for many girls to “survey” their boyfriend’s family. If the other person’s parents are really compatible with you, then you can continue to consider marriage. In fact, there are quite a few cases of broken relationships after the first meeting.
Recently, a girl named Tieu Phuong shared the story of meeting her boyfriend. She and her boyfriend had been in love for more than 2 years, when they started thinking about marriage, he asked her to meet his mother.
Normally, my boyfriend is also a thoughtful and caring person, but when he meets my mother, he seems to change into a different person.
“My boyfriend’s mother gave me a rather scary feeling because she seemed strict and formidable. My boyfriend’s family background was very good, better than mine, so when she talked to me, she often compared things quite a lot. At first, we met because his mother suggested it, she said she wanted to invite me to dinner to meet for the first time. The location was a private restaurant near my house. I agreed and was quite excited about the meeting because my boyfriend and I were thinking about getting married anyway.
But at first sight, looking at my aunt, I was startled. She asked me a lot about my family, siblings, each person's job... Asking is a good thing, but it was no different from interrogation because my boyfriend's mother even asked about my sister's in-laws and her husband's family," Tieu Phuong said.
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Throughout the meal, no matter what his mother said, her boyfriend kept nodding and kept quiet. Even when Tieu Phuong was confused because her aunt said many unpleasant things, he still kept his head down to eat. This made her feel uneasy.
She thought this was the type of man who would listen to his mother in everything. At first, when they were in love, she had never contacted or mentioned his family, so this was kept a secret. Now that she had officially met her boyfriend's mother, Tieu Phuong saw a series of unstable things surrounding him.
The first time she went out to eat, she felt embarrassed about letting an older person pay the bill. She secretly texted her boyfriend and said that they would both pay for the meal, and that she would never let her boyfriend’s mother take out her wallet. However, he did not reply.
While going to the restroom, Tieu Phuong went to the counter and paid for her meal. But when she returned, things got out of control.
“I never expected my good intentions to backfire. After knowing that I had paid the bill, my boyfriend’s mother was very angry. She said that I seemed to be looking down on her, thinking that she couldn’t pay for the meal and paid first. Then she took out some bills, threw them on the table, and asked my boyfriend to get up and leave. I didn’t expect this incident to cause such a big stir.
But what is more important is that my boyfriend kept quiet and followed his mother right after that. He just turned to me and said, "My mother said yes, so what are you showing off for?" and then left. After that, when I got home, I said goodbye because I felt that even if we got married, he wouldn't be able to protect me in the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law" war. But I was still confused, not knowing what big mistake I had made to be in such an embarrassing situation," Tieu Phuong shared.
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After the story was published, many people thought that the boyfriend's mother's behavior was really too much. In any case, throwing money or insulting others is not right. But the most condemnable character is the boyfriend. He cannot reconcile the relationship between his mother and his girlfriend and listen to his mother 100%. Marrying someone like this will only bring headaches and fatigue.
Others also think that the girl's actions are not very appropriate. When the boyfriend's mother says she will treat guests, let her pay. If she is robbed of paying the bill, she may feel humiliated and disrespected.
However, in any case, the above situation is not so serious that the boyfriend's mother has to act so harshly, causing a relationship to break up quickly.
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