Before getting married, I knew my husband's family was not well off, but after getting married, the truth behind it shocked me.
*This is a woman's shared article posted on Toutiao.
My husband and I were college classmates. Coming from the countryside, I am very hard-working in my studies and work. I am always the top student, actively participate in school activities, and know how to dress. My family is also quite well-off, my parents provide for me every month and I use my monthly salary to buy clothes.
In college, I was also a popular figure. There were many people pursuing me, but I liked my husband the most. As soon as I saw him, I knew he was the one who could be with me until we grew old together.
During our relationship, my husband did not do anything too romantic, nor did he spend much money on me. On the contrary, there were times when I had to lend him my savings. The reason I married him was because he was a warm and caring person, and I felt safe when I was with him.
When I graduated from college, he proposed to me and of course I said yes. Half a year later we got married. Before the wedding, my parents visited his family. His family lived in a rather old house. His parents were both workers. My parents understood, sympathized and still agreed to let me marry him.
After my husband and I got married, my mother-in-law said that renting a house was not a good idea, so she gave us some money to buy an apartment to live in.
When I went to buy a house, because I did not have a household registration in the city, I asked my husband to buy the house in his name. But he kept refusing, hesitating and not saying anything. The staff standing next to me urged me, so I gave my husband's ID card to the staff so he could check and proceed with the procedure. Unexpectedly, he said my husband had an apartment. Moreover, in addition to the house where my parents-in-law were living, my husband's family also had another house, in my mother-in-law's name. It turned out that my "poor" husband had 3 houses.
I just asked my husband about this, he said that my in-laws wanted to test me. They waited until I gave birth to tell me the truth, but I didn't expect this to be discovered so soon. After hearing what my husband said, I really wanted a divorce.
The woman’s story has attracted much attention from netizens. There are many opinions:
"Congratulations, you're lucky to have married into a well-off family. As long as you don't change your mind, all that property will be shared."
"A married couple who calculates financial interests too carefully with each other will find it difficult to sympathize and share hardships for a long time. You should carefully consider this husband's character."
"Maybe it's your husband's parents' property. Your husband is an independent person, doesn't want to rely on his parents' property, so he hid the fact that he has registered several houses under his name. Now, the two of you are working together to have common property. What's important is how much love you have for each other. Don't lose your family because of a little pride."
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/biet-ban-trai-ngheo-khong-che-sau-cuoi-bo-me-cho-mua-nha-lam-thu-tuc-de-chong-dung-ten-xong-lai-quyet-dinh-ly-hon-172250108144528898.htm
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