It's okay for men to be poor, but if they complain about being poor a lot, women should be careful!
My sister just broke up with her college relationship, of course she was sad, I also had to take her out to relieve stress a lot but now if I ask her to do it again, she would want to break up a little sooner to avoid wasting time.
Bao has been my sister's lover since her second year of college until now, when she graduated and has been working for 3 years. Oh! To be exact, my sister has been working for 3 years, but Bao hasn't worked at all.
At that time, sometimes my sister brought her boyfriend back to the countryside to visit, but I didn't really like it. Every time he came back to visit, he would stay at my house for a whole month, eating very naturally, not having enough food and asking for more, but my parents were hospitable so they didn't pay much attention to it. Since my parents didn't care, as a child, I didn't dare say anything.
We have been in love for so many years, and have visited my house countless times, but Bao has never brought home a cake or an orange as a gift for my parents. Every time he did, he sang this song:
- I'm so shy but I'm a poor student, I don't have any gifts to give when I visit you two.
Of course, every time I finished singing that song, my parents would happily say "it's okay". If they didn't say that, what else could they say? Wouldn't my parents disagree and chase away their daughter's boyfriend?
Actually, a kilo of oranges or a dozen boxes of green rice cakes are not worth much money, but at least they show people that you are sincere. Sometimes when he buys them and brings them as gifts, my parents will tell him to eat them, but they don't ask for anything.
That's a story about human relations, but the love story between Bao and my sister is a legend that I have to remember in my head so that I will never choose the wrong person so terribly.
Mr. Bao always complains that he is poor and that students don't have money, but my sister and Mr. Bao are the same age. If he doesn't have money, my sister probably does!
But instead of complaining, my sister chose to work part-time since she was in college. She worked as a waitress at a coffee shop, sometimes washing dishes at a restaurant. There was even a period of time when she sold goods at a 24-hour store, coming home from school, she would go to work, stand there until the next morning and carry her backpack to school again.
Of course, working means having money. Bao knew that my sister had money coming in, so he often went to her house to eat, asking for more bowls and chopsticks. Where did he get the extra bowl and chopsticks? Was he just eating for air, so he just asked for more bowls and chopsticks?
After so many years of being in love, my sister never received a gift from him. Well, holidays can be ignored, but she didn't get anything on her birthday. My sister didn't ask for anything either, a rose at that time probably only cost 5 thousand, but my sister never even received the stem.
Unfortunately, young girls think that because their lover is in such a difficult situation, they have to stay by his side. If they leave him because he doesn't have money, they are worthless. So even though there is no joy in that relationship that only has self-pity, my sister doesn't dare to break up.
In addition, Bao also has delusions. He often tells my sister that when he has money, this will be like that. He doesn't know when his future will be. If he doesn't work, where will he get money to dream?
Well, when we were students, we could still use that as an excuse, but now we've both graduated, my sister has been working for 3 years now, and her boyfriend still sings the song "I have no money".
My sister is pretty and quick-witted, so when she goes to work and meets new people, many guys pay attention to her, but because she is still in a relationship with Mr. Bao, she often refuses.
It wasn't until yesterday, on her birthday, that instead of receiving a gift from her lover, she received a phone call that couldn't be more depressing than he was.
- Oh dear! Are you done with work yet? Find a bottle of Lavie and run out to buy me some gas. My car ran out of gas in the middle of the road and I'm out of money. I don't have enough money to buy gas.
Only then did my sister realize that poor men were not a problem at all, but men who often complained about poverty and used it as a mean excuse to be lazy and lack ambition were very problematic.
So my sister decided to break up right away. Right on her 26th birthday and right on the phone asking for gas because she ran out of money. Decisive and quick, the love from college days just went up in smoke!
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