Married life sometimes hides interesting secrets: There are young women whose faces are marked by time, while some middle-aged women look younger than their actual age. This shows that a comfortable and happy life can push back the signs of aging, while dissatisfaction and sadness will take away the freshness on each person's face.
And if you look closely at women who can live well and happily in marriage, they can do the following things.
1. Being ruthless with inappropriate emotions is the only way to truly love yourself
Women are often emotional and sincere, but sometimes, that sincerity puts them in a deadlock of love. The love of many couples, although sincere, is not sustainable enough in the face of differences and pressure, leading to distance and fatigue.
Sometimes being cruel to emotions is not only to protect yourself, but also to maintain dignity in a relationship. Love cannot be forced, and only by facing it bravely can we free ourselves from trouble and find peace again.
2. Only by being cruel to things that violate their principles can women gain freedom.
In fact, one of the ways to happiness in marriage is to keep the rules. Self-imposed rules are the foundation of dignity. Even a single deviation opens the door to further violations.
Talking about sacrifice in marriage, surely many women think that they are always the ones who contribute the most. They spend their youth, give their soul to keep the happiness intact but in the end, sometimes all that is left is a sigh of disappointment.
Always pleasing others, constantly changing yourself to the point of losing yourself just to hold on to your other half, that is not a good idea to maintain happiness in marriage.
Only women who dare to be true to themselves, dare to express their opinions and maintain their personal principles, "flexible" depending on the situation can find happiness. Life is not for the weak-hearted, but for those who dare to stand firm and maintain self-respect.
3. Be cruel with the "stable" mentality, only by renewing yourself can you avoid being "abandoned"
Darwin said: "In the jungle, it is not the tallest and strongest of the species that survives, but the one that can respond most quickly to change." This is also true for women in marriage.
Many women, after finding a sense of stability in their marriage, fall into the temptation of comfort and neglect their own self-improvement. In fact, many people enjoy the protection of their husbands and just stay at home and do not work. However, no one knows what challenges life will bring. At each age, thoughts and experiences will be different. If the gap between understanding between husband and wife is prolonged due to differences in social status, life views, and personal interests, it will be a big problem for long-term happiness.
Only by constantly trying, renewing yourself, and keeping up with the changes of the times can women not be abandoned by society. Someone once said: "When this era throws you away, it won't even say goodbye to you." This is also true in marriage. Therefore, women should not indulge in a comfortable environment, but should be exposed to new things and renew themselves, so that you can have the attractiveness you deserve at any age. Just like Meyer Musk, author of the book "Life is Like Me", after divorcing her husband, she never gave up on herself even though she raised three children alone.
Be proactive in seeking opportunities to learn and achieve great results in the field you love. Women with determination are those with a steadfast and strong heart, know what they want, so of course they will not fall into unhappiness.
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