Do women need to receive gifts or do they need gifts to be happy? I think it depends on what the gift is. There will be many good suggestions for people who "have the heart" to give gifts to women, but women are not that simple and easily "happy", the gifts they need are much more subtle.
I once gave my wife a car as a gift, of course she was happy.
But when the COVID-19 pandemic hit, everything went downhill, the car had to be sold, and on our anniversaries, neither of us gave each other any gifts.
When life stabilized again, I quietly gave my wife a... sun protection shirt, because I saw that her old shirt was torn and too old. When she suddenly "received a gift", she was extremely happy and I felt that this joy was completely different from when she received expensive gifts before.
I have experience that any gift given makes the recipient happy. But for women, if the gift comes from sincere affection, understanding or recognition and respect from the giver, then that gift is very valuable to them, that is the gift women need, not necessarily material values.
In the 1995 American film Empire Records directed by Allan Moyle, the main character has the line "I don't regret what I did, but I will regret what I didn't do".
The classic line of the male lead in this movie quickly became a storm and became a "guiding principle" for many people later.
Will giving gifts to women make them happy? Of course. But if someone has never secretly given a gift from his heart to a girl, regardless of the reason, then that is their biggest regret, because if they don't do that, they will have less chance to see the happy smile from the girl they love.
Promise of the year
I recall a story many years ago when I was on a business trip to a remote border district in Dong Thap. This rather desolate land had a tiny, old high school, and I happened to get to know an elderly literature teacher there.
Through many conversations, I know that this teacher does not have many opportunities and financial ability to buy books to improve her professional skills and serve her teaching, so I promised myself that I would give her books.
But, when I finished my work and returned to Ho Chi Minh City, I forgot about my teacher and that "remote" district, and of course I forgot my promise. More than a year later, my teacher texted me to congratulate me on a film that my crew and I made that she saw online, and I "suddenly remembered" her.
I knew that the teacher did not know my promise. She still remembered me and always encouraged me in many ways. Feeling that I was too heartless, I immediately returned to that border that same day and did not forget to bring along countless literature books that I had "swept away" in the bookstores in Ho Chi Minh City.
I met her again at school, in the late afternoon, after asking her questions, I sent her two boxes of books. I can never forget that moment, when she opened the box of books and held in her hands brand new books by many authors of Tu Luc Van Doan, Nobel literature novels, and a full range of books by domestic authors...
Her eyes almost lit up because of the gift that she said "even in my dreams I never thought the gift would be so valuable".
Then the teacher ran to the other classrooms to call the other literature teachers (the remote school had a dormitory for teachers). I saw the teachers cheering and cherishing the brand new books, I felt so happy.
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