To avoid being 'green' by their children, parents avoid 'brain-weighing' conversations

Parents tend to have fewer discussions with their Gen Z children about difficult topics, even when they believe it's important.

According to The Wrap, Gen Z's perspective has changed significantly over time, thanks to the influence of social media, specifically TikTok. - Photo: EYC

Conversations with parents are an important part of growing up, whether they're about friendships, grades, mental health, or relationships.

However, a new Gallup survey shows that while at least 80% of Gen Z say these conversations are helpful, their parents avoid discussing them.

The communication gap between parents and Gen Z.

A survey in the US, based on responses from 1,675 couples, included children aged 10-18 and one parent. The results showed that most parents are worried about their children. 80% of parents reported worrying about at least one aspect of their child's life.

Top concerns include the future (42% of parents), mental health (40%), school experience (40%), and personal safety (40%).

On average, single parents worry more than full parents (44% vs. 32%). Black or Hispanic parents worry more than average (41% and 40% vs. 32%).

Parents also reported that they found it easy to discuss their children's grades (78%), safety (76%), substance use (75%), and friendships (73%). However, this percentage dropped by about 20% when it came to social media and emotions.

Sometimes parents may be reluctant to discuss difficult topics, even when they feel they are important. 74% of parents are worried about their children's social media use and find it easy to talk about it. Meanwhile, 44% of parents are worried but find the topic difficult to discuss.

Additionally, 53% of parents worry about how their children express their emotions. However, they find it difficult to talk about it and often wait until the last minute to express their thoughts.

Parents lack confidence when talking to their children about money.

In late November 2024, a new study also revealed that many parents are avoiding conversations about money with their children, fearing they will give bad advice. The survey showed that up to 85% of parents worry that they may impart poor financial literacy to their children, leading them to completely avoid discussions about money.

A survey of 2,000 parents with children aged 10-20 found that a significant number of parents lack confidence in their financial skills.

Most parents report being unsure about investing, budgeting, and managing credit scores. Therefore, they feel inadequate in explaining these concepts to their children.

Looking back on their own experiences, 76% of parents wish they had learned more about finances when they were younger. Therefore, more than half of parents want to give their children the best possible financial start.

However, 41% of parents still avoid talking about past financial mistakes, and 66% believe that financial education should be taught at school rather than at home.

According to financial expert Tayo Oguntonade, young people often view their parents as the ultimate authority. While parents often want to protect their children from their financial mistakes, avoiding these discussions can ultimately do more harm than good.

"Discussing money from an early age will equip children with practical skills and a sound understanding of finances, helping them to have a brighter financial future," he advised.

Source: https://tuoitre.vn/tranh-bi-con-xanh-la-phu-huynh-ne-tro-chuyen-can-nao-20241205222132458.htm