I like being alone, I'm not afraid of loneliness.

Living alone is a special ability.

Many people have long wondered why, at her age, Ly Nha Ky is still unmarried. Let me ask you honestly, are you tired of being lonely?

Most people, when they see someone who isn't in a relationship, automatically assume they're lonely. But on second thought, I'm not alone. For me, once I'm lonely, even if I'm surrounded by a lover or a sea of ​​people, I still feel lonely; it's not about whether I have a partner or not.

At 41 years old, Ly Nha Ky is still unmarried.

Why doesn't Ly Nha Ky fall in love with anyone?

Being single doesn't mean I have to find a boyfriend or constantly think about dating. Life has many things to enjoy. Some people focus on their careers, some focus on their passions and themselves, and some prefer hanging out with friends...

Spending time alone is when we can listen to ourselves the most, understand ourselves best, and not be swept away by love or a lover.

Financially independent, talented, and beautiful, when did she learn how to live alone?

Living alone is truly a special kind of ability. Those who know how to live alone, enjoy life, and create value from it can still feel just as happy as those who live with others. But few people understand that.

Of course, living alone doesn't mean being completely isolated and disconnected from everyone. On the contrary, people who choose to live alone, like me, have very rich lives, extensive networks, and friends and partners all over the world .

However, their egos are strong enough that they don't rely on, depend on, or entrust their joys, sorrows, hopes, and disappointments to others. They are completely proactive in their lives. They are the captains of their own life's ship.

I won't choose someone who only knows how to say "I love you."

What are your thoughts on marriage and married life?

Marriage must originate from love, and it is the source of marital happiness, a harmony of both soul and body. Only true love can lead to a happy marriage.

Ly Nha Ky's villa. Photo: Zing

But we shouldn't absolutize it either; love isn't always rosy. Because when in love, those involved are often not objective, even becoming blindly infatuated, failing to see the injustices that outsiders can also see.

The so-called love at first sight doesn't always lead people to meet their soulmate and decide to spend their lives together.

Marriage is valued not simply as the union of two people of different genders, but also for its much higher purpose: responsibility towards family and children.

What are your views on what constitutes a happy marriage?

When two people enter marriage, there will be things they are unhappy about and things they can't quite get along with. But if the couple communicates with a spirit of trying to understand and respect each other, their love will always be strong.

A happy marriage cannot be built solely on the efforts of one partner. It is the result of mutual effort, understanding, and respect.

What kind of man would need to meet your criteria?

For me, life has no formula. The same goes for men! Many people say I need a talented, stable man, but women can also become wealthy.

Instead, women should choose a man who makes them feel safe, respected, and connected. Don't choose someone who only says "I love you," choose someone who respects you; that's what lasting love is.

Don't let love lead you astray.

Do you think that many young people want to be with you but are hesitant because you are talented and wealthy?

Actually, many men have loved and pursued me, but I haven't reciprocated, not because they're bad people. On the contrary, they're too perfect and talented, so they're not right for me.

But there are also men who stand before me but lack confidence in their knowledge, finances , or fame. They lack the confidence to walk alongside me. What I need is more emotional connection.

Would you be willing to love a young and poor man?

There are no fixed criteria for choosing a husband. Some women prefer to marry wealthy men, believing that material abundance is a form of happiness. But there are also women who are willing to marry poor men, as long as he loves and cares for them.

Regardless of your criteria for choosing a husband, remember this: a man's wealth or poverty doesn't determine your happiness. A rich man who disrespects his wife is worthless. A poor man who makes his wife bear all the burdens is simply unnecessary.

Happiness or suffering, joy or sorrow, it all depends on fate. For a woman, finding a man who loves and protects her for life is truly desirable and constitutes happiness.

As a woman, you must first live for yourself. Regardless of whether life is prosperous or not, don't let love lead you astray or make you dependent. Women don't need a man who can say anything, but a man who can do anything.

Back to reality, are you still single, or do you have a "short-term" or "long-term" boyfriend?

I'm not very good at short-term relationships once I realize what I truly need.

Beyond emotions, my approach to love is very rational. I always have a clear vision for the future of a relationship. Most people who don't make it to the end with me do so because they don't understand my soul…

Now that your ex-boyfriend has settled down, do you feel lost or uncertain?

As an adult, no matter how sad I am, I should wish my ex well when they find their perfect match. But I also don't dwell too much on my ex's life; what each person needs to focus on is what's happening in the present.

It's not that I'm trying to act strong, but honestly, I find my single life quite alright. I don't have so much free time that I can't really embrace loneliness.

Being single but not feeling lonely, always happy and optimistic, that's the real challenge. The fact that we can do it shows we're not just any ordinary people, right?

Thank you!

Ly Nha Ky, whose real name is Tran Thi Thanh Nhan (born July 19, 1982), is an actress and businesswoman. She is widely known for her role as Diem Kieu in the television series "The Beautiful Woman and the Tycoon" (2008). In 2011, she was appointed as Vietnam's first tourism ambassador.

According to a 2022 report from the South China Morning Post, Ly Nha Ky's net worth is estimated at approximately $17 million USD (nearly 385 billion VND). She also owns a Ferretti 360 yacht worth $4.4 million USD (nearly 100 billion VND), a Rolls-Royce Ghost worth $1.8 million USD (over 40.7 billion VND), and a Jaguar F-Type R Convertible priced at around $500,000 USD (over 11.3 billion VND).

Source: https://www.baogiaothong.vn/ly-nha-ky-toi-thich-mot-minh-va-khong-so-co-don-192231222095126765.htm