Jews tell their children that if they want to be rich, they must avoid associating with these 3 types of people.

GĐXH - There are people who you think are good friends but turn out to be obstacles in your life, holding you back, and even stabbing you in the back.

Ken Blanchard - author of the classic book The 1 Minute Manager once said: "None of us is as smart as all of us."

To achieve success, we always need the help of friends and colleagues... They are also the right-hand men who help us maintain and prolong that success.

None of us are alone on our journey, everyone will find friends to accompany them in life.

There is a saying "if you want to go fast, go alone, but if you want to go far, go together" to affirm the power of connection and cooperation between people.

However, not all friends are good and trustworthy enough to grow with. In fact, many people who are around you in the name of "friends" are actually holding you back or just waiting for the right moment to push you down.

So how do we recognize these “toxic” friends? This is something you can learn from the Jews.

The vicissitudes of fate have forced the Jews to wander for thousands of years. They have learned to survive and adapt to different cultures and economies around the world.

Thanks to that, they come into contact with all kinds of people and develop a keen eye to read people in society.

These things were taught by the Jews to their children from generation to generation for them to remember.

It is also one of the secrets to the success and wealth of the most intelligent people in the world.

According to Jews, there are types of people who, if you associate with them, will slow you down, be negative, and make it impossible for you to achieve success and wealth. Illustrative photo

The Talmud, a collection of Jewish wisdom, reminds us: There is a kind of person who you consider your friend, but they take advantage of you and even stab you in the back at any time. This really has a negative impact on your future and life.

The scary thing is that this type of person is very good at hiding their true nature. They always want to harm you on the inside, but on the outside they act very well, making you unaware. The following 3 types of people are typical of "bad friends". When you find them, stay away from them as soon as possible.

1. People who always see themselves as "miserable"

There is a type of person who always opens his mouth to complain "I'm so miserable", "I need help with this, I need help with that" making others feel like they have never had a good life.

But in reality, their lives are much more comfortable than yours, and their resources and opportunities may also be more abundant than yours.

This kind of person, being miserable is just an act, taking advantage of the sympathy of friends around to make money is the real thing.

For example, you have a friend who comes to you every day complaining, crying and then borrowing money. You immediately feel sorry for him and do not hesitate to lend him money, also helping him a lot.

But later, when you have trouble and need to get your money back, they pretend to be in trouble to prolong the time, or even not pay.

Meanwhile, they still have money to change phones, change cars, buy luxury clothes. If you push them, they will make up stories and badmouth you to everyone around them.

This kind of person is selfish, always taking advantage of you, asking for their help is harder than going to heaven.

Selfish, unforgiving friends find it difficult to care about others, and you will not benefit from associating with them.

If you have such people around you, stay away, don't let them drag you down to the abyss.

2. People who always advise you to "measure your own strength"

Have you ever been in this situation: You want to do something so you share it with your friends to get their opinions, but they mock, taunt, and insist that you can't do it.

People who show this attitude show that they always think you are inferior and more or less look down on you.

Real friends will give you advice and counsel, not put you down like that.

Most of these people are no better than you. Because this type of person has a very one-sided view of things.

They cannot see their own shortcomings, but look at others with judgmental, narrow eyes.

Hanging out with this kind of person will never improve your life because their words will drag you down, eat away at your positivity, and prevent you from breaking through and expressing yourself.

If there are people like this around, you have to be careful.

Collection of Jewish wisdom reminds: There are 3 types of people like this, you consider them as friends, but they take advantage of you, pull you back, and even stab you in the back. Illustration photo

3. Ungrateful people

Some people, even though you have treated them very well, even helped them a lot, they do not have any feeling of gratitude in their hearts, so you have to be careful.

This type of person doesn't like to be arrogant but will never be satisfied, will directly attack you for whatever he wants.

No matter how much you give, he just takes it for granted, thinking it's your responsibility.

When you can't give anymore, that person will feel that you have done something wrong to them.

Haki is a successful Jewish businessman. A friend of his also did business, but was unsuccessful, so he often asked Haki for advice.

Haki not only shared his business experience but also came to his store many times to help while Haki's business was also greatly stagnant.

When that friend asked Haki for help again, Haki refused because he had problems with work so he couldn't leave during this time.

The other friend was angry and thought that Haki valued work more than their friendship so he didn't want to help.

Some people are not grateful at all. In their eyes, you are always the one who is obliged to help unconditionally. The more you give, the more they think it is natural.

In life, this type of person is quite common. Even though you have treated them very well, even tried your best to help them, they do not feel any gratitude in their hearts. This is also the type of person that Jewish parents advise their children not to make friends with and to stay away from as soon as possible.

People live in society, no one can succeed without the support of friends, sometimes your future depends not only on yourself but also on the people you associate with.

We don't have to be on guard against everyone, but at least we should recognize and stay away from people who are "harmful" to us.

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