Mr. Chen, 58, a marketing executive in Singapore, contacted Shin Min Daily News to file a complaint. He said that four years ago, he went to a massage parlor in Sims Avenue to relax after an argument with his wife. There, he met a 44-year-old Chinese masseuse and after knowing each other for half a year, the two became romantically involved.
"Seeing her struggle to send her child to study in Singapore alone, and her filial piety in frequently returning to her hometown in Chu Hao, China to visit her mother, I was moved and decided to stay," he said.
Mr. Chen presented evidence of his relationship and the amount of money he spent on his lover during their years together. Photo: Zaobao.
According to Mr. Chen, the woman later wanted to change careers to teach kindergarten and he was very supportive of this. However, the tuition for teacher training was up to $19,000. Mr. Chen helped his mistress pay this and also gave her a sum of money every month, in addition to gifts on holidays and Tet.
"I spent nearly $30,000 on her. After a year and a half of being in love, she gradually distanced herself and eventually broke up," he revealed. Unwilling to accept this, Mr. Chen demanded his mistress return the money, but she replied: "Every time I sleep with you, I charge $300, so you decide how much you have to pay."
"I couldn't believe she would say those words. When we were together, we were actually only 10 times closer," Mr. Chen said.
Chen said his child was in college and therefore he did not want to divorce his wife even though their relationship had broken down.
3 immediate consequences of adultery
Those who betray their marriages will not have a good life. Because what you sow is what you reap. And the consequences of adultery can be seen right before your eyes:
Losing family
Losing his family is the natural consequence that a man who does not know how to cherish his family must accept when he decides to find another woman. If he repents and turns back, he still has to wait for his family to accept his depraved actions.
Cheaters usually don't have a good life. Illustration photo
The Curse of Solitude
A person who chooses to destroy family happiness will have to endure the curse of loneliness for the rest of his life. Just think, who would want to love and be with such a heartless person? No matter how many women they find to replace them, because of their womanizing nature, they will eventually lose everything.
Disrespected
Adultery is an unforgivable act, so once a man chooses to go down this path, he has already lost his self-respect and the respect of his children and wife.
Losing trust from family and outsiders: A person who cannot even maintain trust with his wife and children, how can he gain trust in work and life?
However, after an affair, not every family will fall apart, not every happiness will disappear.
In the fight against and handling adultery, a wise and respectable woman will help her husband transform cause and effect and limit the worst possible consequences. Can you turn the situation around and once again tie his heart?
As men, we also need to understand the nature of adultery and the law of cause and effect if we encounter it. Don't let your beloved family collapse, don't lose your honor, faith and future to an unworthy desire.
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