Mother-in-law gave me money to buy an apartment but didn't let me have my name on it.

VOV.VN - Since I first moved in, my husband has been quite tired of her critical nature, so he rented a separate house. Recently, my mother-in-law offered to give us money to buy an apartment, but on the condition that it would only be in my husband's name.

My husband and I have been married for nearly 5 years and only lived with his parents-in-law for the first year, then rented a house to live on our own.

My husband's family is well off, the 5-story house is only inhabited by his parents so they want us to live together.

When I first got married, I thought I would treat my in-laws as my own parents, so living together was simple. But when we lived together, many problems arose.

My mother-in-law is a picky person so I always feel like I'm being watched and uncomfortable living with her.

Even though my husband and I have our own room, we have almost no freedom. My mother-in-law often comes in to arrange things when we are not home.

At first I was a bit upset so I told my husband, but when my mother-in-law heard, she was upset for a while.

She didn't tell me but told my husband that her children were wary and didn't trust her, so she thought that way.

I thought my mother-in-law would not enter our room without permission after that, but she did not change.

My mother-in-law gave us money to buy an apartment but asked that it only be in my husband's name (illustrative photo)

I just got married so I don't want to have children yet. My mother-in-law always complains that everyone her age has grandchildren, but her family is not lucky so she still doesn't have grandchildren.

I was very upset but knowing my mother-in-law's personality, I didn't react. Then there were many things that made me always have to be reserved and considerate at home, which was more tiring than going to work.

Then my husband had to go on a business trip for a while, so I asked for permission to go back to my parents' house, but in fact I rented a house to live separately.

My mother-in-law was angry for a while after she found out, but I considered it a fait accompli and did not return to live with her.

After I gave birth, my mother-in-law occasionally came to visit her grandchild and on weekends we went to visit my grandparents.

Recently, my mother-in-law said we couldn't bear to rent a house forever, so she gave us money to buy an apartment but asked that it only be in my husband's name.

I don't want my mother-in-law's house but I still feel sad because since I moved to my husband's house, my parents-in-law still don't trust me and still treat me like an outsider.

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