GĐXH - Tired after work, he has to clean the house, wash dishes, do laundry, hang clothes, mop the floor...
Having been married for just over 2 years, Mr. Truong in Fujian (China) felt 'crazy' because his wife was too addicted to watching TV.
According to him, after giving birth, his wife quit her job to stay home and take care of the children.
Unexpectedly, after being a full-time housewife, Mr. Truong's wife became lazy, addicted to watching TV and neglected all housework.
Every day when he comes home from work, the scene is a mess, dirty clothes thrown everywhere without washing, the floor is not mopped, the kitchen area is covered with grease, the dishes are not washed, 4-5 baby bottles are left lying around without being sterilized...
After a hard day's work he should be resting, but now he has to wash dishes, do the laundry, hang clothes, and clean the house.
Despite being known as a housewife taking care of the children, when her husband comes home, she doesn't cook, the refrigerator is empty, her daughter cries and her diaper overflows, but she doesn't care. Illustrative photo
Thinking that his wife was having a hard time looking after the children, Mr. Truong tried to endure, but his wife became more and more unreasonable.
Despite being known as a housewife and taking care of the children, when her husband comes home, she doesn't cook, the refrigerator is empty, her daughter cries and her diaper overflows, but she doesn't care.
Once, Mr. Truong got angry because his daughter had a bowel movement but his wife didn't know. When he came home, the stool was dry. His daughter was also hospitalized twice because her diaper rash was not changed or washed in time.
"When I get home, the scene I often see is my wife lying down watching TV, on the table there are a bunch of boxes that my wife ordered online, my daughter is sick all the time, the house is dirty. I only say a few words of reproach, my wife runs back to her parents' house, after a few days I have to come pick her up. This situation repeats itself. I really don't know what I did wrong? I know that taking care of children at home is very stressful and tiring, I can understand, I have tried to help my wife. However, I also work very hard to support the family. I don't want to try anymore, should I get a divorce or not?", Mr. Truong sadly shared.
His sharing has attracted much public attention, many people advised him to divorce if his wife does not change: "Next time she leaves, change the locks of the house, what's the point of having a wife like that? It's like not having one!", "You can divorce but don't let this mother get custody of the child, she abuses her child", "Get a divorce! I was in your situation, without her, you can live better" .. , netizens commented excitedly.
Observe carefully the following 4 characteristics to see if a woman should be married.
In this society, no one is so stupid as to expose their true nature for everyone to see.
Men, whether in love or wanting to get married, should be careful in choosing their other half. Illustration photo
But bad people often pretend to be good people. So how can you see through a woman?
1. See how she spends money, is she wasteful?
The way a person spends money can more or less reflect that person's character, it is also the most direct and objective evidence.
Being generous is different from being wasteful. A woman, whether rich or not, if she has the habit of spending money lavishly and likes frivolous and luxurious things, will easily cause her family to fail.
Women who don't know how to earn money or save money, but only know how to spend money, and always spend beyond their means.
This woman is definitely a spendthrift, not a good person to think about marrying.
A good woman, whether she has money or not, whether she is rich or poor, she still will not spend money so lavishly.
She also doesn't like to compare herself with others. So, she only buys the things she needs and likes, and absolutely won't buy anything she doesn't like.
Spend money with a plan and know how to control your natural shopping instinct.
There is a saying: "Behind every successful man, there is a woman who makes silent sacrifices." If men want a peaceful life in the second half of their lives, they should be wise in choosing the right wife. A woman who knows how to manage money and spend it wisely will help her manage the house well and help her husband make a living.
2. Look at her relationships, are they "unclear" with many people?
Everyone will have friends of the same sex or the opposite sex; or colleagues of the same sex or the opposite sex... And we cannot, out of jealousy or suspicion, forbid our other half from giving up their personal relationships.
However, the way they treat and interact with the opposite sex, will clearly reflect their personality and character.
The woman you love doesn't need to draw a clear line with the opposite sex, but see if she speaks moderately, is she too intimate, or uses ambiguous, insinuating words... with the opposite sex?
Because a good woman always knows how to keep a certain distance from the opposite sex.
No matter how well the other person of the opposite sex treats her, she will not act ambiguously, but will always maintain a pure friendship with that person, not saying things that will cause the other person to misunderstand, nor making you feel embarrassed.
Marrying such a woman, you will not need to worry about betrayal or hurt in your future marriage. Because once she accepts your proposal, she must have been very serious and thought carefully before making a decision.
And according to her personality of clearly dividing relationships, she will definitely have wise actions to protect both of their families.
3. Look at her attitude towards life, is it negative or not?
To know if a woman is good or not, you also need to look at her attitude towards life. If she is optimistic, positive, full of enthusiasm for life and work.
No matter what happens, you can adjust your emotions and move forward independently... You should cherish and keep such a person by your side.
Because she is a "golden" woman, not only always fighting for her own ideals, but also can encourage their men to progress together.
And by getting them, your career will also be more successful because you have the best life partner to help you.
On the contrary, stay away from women who complain about life all day, always have a negative attitude towards everything and badmouth their friends and people around them. Women who are always dissatisfied with the status quo, but do not try to improve, are not the type of people you should associate with.
4. Look at her personality, is she lazy, selfish or not?
Personality also determines a person's way of life. People with good character often think from other people's perspective, while people with poor character only think for themselves and are lazy.
A selfish and lazy woman, who doesn't like to work, but only wants to eat well and dress well all day, and has the mindset of relying on others, and has improper thoughts of finding someone to support her. If you don't want to lose everything, it's best not to marry this woman.
Nowadays, it is not required that every woman knows how to cook well or is good at housework, but at least she must be clean, know how to clean neatly, and know how to cook a few simple dishes.
When she cooks, you help her wash vegetables; when she cleans the house, you wash the dishes for her,... That way, the house you live in feels like family.
Don't be so caught up in a person's appearance that you forget to consider their character. We all love beauty, but when it comes to marriage, be wise in choosing the most suitable partner.
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