I got married with nothing. My parents had been divorced for many years, and gradually they no longer felt responsible for their child, me.
So when I got married, all I was given as a dowry was the 3 taels of gold my grandmother had saved for me. My parents had absolutely nothing.
Because I had to be independent from an early age and lacked affection, I always wanted to have a family of my own, so I got married and had children quite early. Luckily, my job brought me a stable income, enough to support myself and my family.
My husband is like many other husbands, he is a mother in everything. His mother taught him very well, especially in the ideology that wife is just an outsider, mother is the best. So in my husband's life philosophy, parents are number 1, siblings are number 2, children are number 3, friends are number 4, and wife is not even in the top 10.
But well, I chose my husband, I don't complain or blame my fate. I just think that as long as we can bear it and feel we need each other, we will continue to live together, until we can't bear it anymore and there is no reason to stay together, then we will break up.
When I had my first child, I didn’t have any insurance because I was self-employed. When I had my second child, I worked and sold online, so I got maternity money. I always budgeted for childbirth, but having some maternity money was still nice.
To be honest, I know my position in my husband's family, so I don't want people to know how much money I have. If we don't live together, we still have money to take care of the two children.
That day, I don't know what possessed me, but when I saw my account ping ting notification that I had received 43 million in maternity money, I was so happy that I accidentally told my husband.
I know I was stupid when I said that, but I've already bragged so I don't care.
Who would have thought that a while later my husband would sit hugging the computer until almost 12am without sleeping, I was a bit curious so I asked him what he was doing. Do you know what my husband said? Let me quote it verbatim.
- Out of 43 million, I plan to leave 20 million for my parents and 23 million to book a cross-Vietnam tour for them, so I'm looking to see if there's a tour suitable for the elderly.
I was absent-minded, holding my child in my arms but my head had not yet counted.
- What 43 million? Where is 43 million?
- I told you my maternity allowance is 43 million. Use that money to send my parents on a trip.
You can't imagine how I felt at that moment. I had just given birth to a baby who was only 4 months old and already so sensitive. Hearing this made me want to have a heart attack and a stroke!
- You intend to give my maternity money to your parents to enjoy? I took 6 months off work without pay, if you give it all to your parents, how will your children eat?
My husband, who is beyond reproach, calmly replied that he gives all his salary to me. Wow! How precious! My 7 million is a lot of money!
- So you think I will give you my child's money so you can show filial piety to your parents?
My husband got angry and said that his parents had suffered all their lives to raise him, and wanted to let them enjoy a little bit, but I was too much. Oh, I couldn't breathe from laughing. His parents had suffered to raise him, but they hadn't even raised me and my children for a single day.
Seeing that I didn't seem to be going along with his wishes, he said that from now on he would no longer give me his salary but would send it directly to his mother. I agreed and asked him to leave the house. If we didn't contribute anything together, why would we stay together? Would I have to raise a leopard?
This time I also determined that even if we broke up, I still have no respect or love for my husband anymore.
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