Focus on investing in your child's education from a young age
After 3 years of dating, the couple Thanh Thuy - Duc Thinh got married in May 2008. Up to now, the two have been together for 15 years and have 2 handsome, cute sons, Ca Phe (15 years old) and Tet (5 years old).
Ca Phe is currently in middle school, while Tet is in kindergarten. Recently, the eldest son of director Duc Thinh has received special attention from the public because he is getting more and more handsome as he grows up.
Thanh Thuy - Duc Thinh focus on investing in their children's education from a young age.
In many photo sets, the boy dresses stylishly and trendy, looking like a real "little handsome guy". In daily life, Ca Phe is also invested in studying and educated by his parents very carefully.
It is known that Ca Phe is currently studying at a famous international school in Ho Chi Minh City. According to information from the school's official website, tuition fees range from 64-185 million VND per year, depending on the level of study. Kindergarten has the cheapest fees and grade 12 has the most expensive fees.
The eldest son of a famous couple is attending an expensive international school.
Currently, the tuition fee for secondary school (grades 6 - 9) is 116.25 million VND/year. In addition, parents also have to pay for their children some fees such as Semi-boarding fee, Boarding fee, and Shuttle fee. Because he studies at an international school, Ca Phe can speak English well. Director Duc Thinh also shared that the boy speaks English better than his father. In addition, Ca Phe has been an excellent student for many years.
Like many other parents, Thanh Thuy - Duc Thinh also made mistakes in their child's education but quickly corrected them. Specifically, Thanh Thuy once shared: "Thuy used to force her child to take extra classes, but later on, she regularly checked the activities and saw if her child liked them or not.
If your child doesn't like it, Thuy will let them stop immediately. Thuy hopes that parents need to closely follow their child's study schedule and regularly adjust it according to each child's talent, ability and interests."
Like many other parents, Thanh Thuy - Duc Thinh couple also made mistakes in their children's education but quickly corrected them.
Thanh Thuy - Duc Thinh teaches children about gratitude and kindness
Regarding their views on raising children, Thanh Thuy and her husband do not have many differences. In an interview with the press a few years ago, the famous couple said that in addition to knowledge, they focus on nurturing their children's personalities and souls. They both want their children to have an innocent childhood, knowing how to love and be polite.
In the family, if Thanh Thuy plays the "bad" and serious role, father Duc Thinh always gently advises the children. The couple is strict in teaching their children to say thank you, apologize, ask permission when they want to do something, "go and report when you come back".
Coffee and Tet are taught by their parents that the good things they are enjoying are thanks to this person or that person, including the tears of sacrifice. In specific situations, especially when receiving food from the maid, they must know how to say thank you. In addition, Coffee and Tet are also taught the virtue of sharing, learning how to help others, not being selfish,...
According to Duc Thinh, sharing is a good and important virtue in life. When children know how to help others, they will perfect their personality. "I always teach my children to be tolerant and not selfish. For example, if they like this toy, they can let their younger sibling play first, invite other friends to play with it, or give it to friends who are in more difficult circumstances," he said.
With the desire for her child to form good habits and learn how to share, Thanh Thuy often lets her child participate in charity activities, guides her child on how to give gifts and lets her child mingle with friends. The couple is happy when Ca Phe is praised for being affectionate and obedient.
Coffee and Tet were taught by their parents that the good things they are enjoying are thanks to this person and that person, including the tears of sacrifice.
Famous couple teach their children to stand up from their failures
Not only teaching their children good words and beautiful ideas, Duc Thinh and Thanh Thuy also pay attention to teaching their children about the negative aspects of society so that they can have a comprehensive view, such as the time Duc Thinh taught his children about the incident where Ca Phe had her cell phone stolen in a shopping mall.
Accordingly, the child was given the smartphone by his mother to keep when entering the shopping mall for easy communication. At the children's toy counter, the child was set up by a gang of professional pickpockets to steal the phone. Ca Phe was bewildered and scared. Why didn't the couple scold the child but comfort him?
"Before, I only taught my children good things and right reasons. But now I have to teach them the negative side as well. It's extremely difficult. I don't want my children to lose their innocence because of this. I just tell them that life is like that. The world we live in always has the power of 'Satan' that entices people to do bad things... Be careful to prevent and overcome them. You must understand that there are always more good people than bad people. There is nothing to be afraid of... ", Duc Thinh sent to Ca Phe.
Not only Duc Thinh, Thanh Thuy once sent a letter to her son, praising Ca Phe as a smart, thoughtful and mature boy beyond her parents' expectations. " Mom is very proud when you confidently tell about your dreams, about your achievements. In the future, Ca Phe will face many things, there will be times when you stumble, when you make mistakes. Don't be self-conscious, don't give up, my child. Because you have your parents, your younger sibling, your friends and people who love you," she wrote.
It is known that Thanh Thuy is also a very thoughtful mother. She also taught her children how to choose a lover from the age of 14, 15 because she hopes that love will be the motivation for her children to develop themselves better.
Duc Thinh - Thanh Thuy couple also pay attention to teaching their children to stand up from their failures.
Thanh Thuy: Teaching children also requires trust in each other
As a public figure, Thanh Thuy believes that arranging time reasonably between work and family is a "bit difficult" thing. However, the mother of two children affirms that she is someone who always knows how to arrange time reasonably. When her children are young and need their mother more, she will prioritize them first.
"No matter how good a businesswoman is, the role of a woman is still to take good care of her children and raise them well. So wherever I go to film, if possible, I always take my children with me. At times like that, I find myself working more productively, because I feel secure when my children are with me. Feeling like my children are being well taken care of, I will be more successful in my work," she said.
As a famous actress, Thanh Thuy once had a period of time away from the screen to focus on film production, business and family care. Recently, she has started to return to acting.
For Thanh Thuy, the secret to a happy family is trust. The actress believes that not only in the relationship between husband and wife, but also between parents and children, and between friends, trust is essential to maintain a long-term relationship.
Regarding the views on raising children, Thanh Thuy and her husband do not differ much because most of the decisions are made by her. This also shows her husband Duc Thinh's trust in the actress.
"For important matters, I also need Duc Thinh's opinion and cannot make decisions on my own. I consider myself a woman, I have to take care of the family and raise my children well. Maybe that's why I always leave all the things I do to my husband to make him feel secure," Thanh Thuy said.
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