My brother-in-law was spoiled since childhood, so when something happened, he couldn't stand up for himself. For many years since his divorce, my husband and I have had to help raise our grandchild every month.
My husband's family has 3 brothers, my husband is the oldest, my husband and I are quite well off financially. Behind him is my husband's younger brother who is 5 years younger than him and a youngest uncle who is in college.
I thought my husband's parents would have a leisurely life in their old age, but since my husband's sister got married, they have had a "headache" because of their daughter.
At that time, my sister-in-law insisted on getting married, saying she couldn't live without him, but after less than a year of marriage, the couple had already started having problems.
Her husband is stubborn and patriarchal but always listens to his wife, and her mother-in-law is very cruel.
Unable to stand her husband's family, she separated and divorced, took her child back home to live with her parents when she had just given birth for 3 months.
The boy is now over 4 years old, but my brother-in-law doesn't do anything serious. The life of the two of us still depends on our old parents and my husband and I send a few million VND every month for milk for the boy.
I found my brother-in-law's lifestyle was not good, I gave my husband's family many suggestions but nothing changed (Illustration photo, source: KT)
Everyone in the family sympathized with her because of her difficult marriage and children, but no one gave her any advice. My brother-in-law was spoiled since childhood, so he was dependent.
When I was little, I could stay home and hold my child, but now he has gone to kindergarten and I still stay home and go in and out.
My husband introduced her to many different jobs, but after only a few days she quit, sometimes because of conflicts with colleagues, sometimes because of the hard work.
I don't think that's okay. Right now, the child is still young, so the cost is less expensive, but in just 2 years when the child goes to school, there will be all kinds of money. If she doesn't work, how can everyone take care of her and her child forever?
I gave my opinion to my husband's parents and husband, but everyone said that she was disadvantaged and had a hard life, so they wanted to help.
Once, I was so angry that I told my husband that I would only agree to give her money every month until the child was 5 years old, and then there would be no more support.
Currently, we still give my brother-in-law 5 million each month to buy milk for the baby. That amount of money is nothing to my husband and I, but I don't like my brother-in-law's dependence and reliance.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/em-chong-song-dua-dam-khien-toi-ai-ngai-172250228224705476.htm
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