GĐXH - Arriving at the wedding drunk, the groom was beaten by the bride until his face was dizzy.
A wedding in Chamari village (Jalaun district, Uttar Pradesh state, India) had to be temporarily stopped after the groom was slapped by the bride because he arrived at the venue drunk.
The groom at the wedding was identified as Ravikanth. Family members revealed that during the important varamala ceremony, the groom was not sober, making the bride extremely uncomfortable.
The wife slapped the groom several times and then walked off the stage, shocking the guests. Luckily, the wedding continued after the two sides reached an agreement.
Things to agree on before the wedding
How you feel love
Most women pay attention to details, so small gestures from their husbands make them touched.
But some people like surprise gifts, others like surprise dinners, or birthday parties...
You both need to learn and ask questions about how to feel love, to avoid disagreements when expressing emotions or actions.
Reacting when in a bad mood
A bad day can happen to anyone and we each have our own personal way of handling it.
Some people want space to think, others like to take a walk, read a book... or even talk about the bad things that happened during the day.
Find answers or share notes when feeling upset, helping husband and wife avoid disagreements.
Planning for children
This is a huge issue for many couples. Always be careful in planning this.
How many kids do you plan to have? What will parenting look like? Who will do it? Are you on the same page…these are questions couples should agree on.
Financial problems after the wedding
How will salary and bonus be spent in married life? How much money do you need to spend on birthdays, coffee or going out with friends? Do you need to report to your wife or husband?...
Answer all of those questions, because money is always a hot topic between couples.
At the same time, both of you should also think about a common fund for the family in case of "weather changes" or unexpected matters that need to be resolved... and should do it seriously.
Where do you want to live after the wedding?
This is an important issue that couples need to discuss. Especially when she is an only child and her family does not want to be away from her, or the husband is afraid of being labeled as a son-in-law... or countless similar situations.
Worship of beliefs and religions
This is especially important when you have different beliefs.
Even if you have the same beliefs, you should still discuss with each other about spiritual values, beliefs, how to celebrate holidays according to customs and practices...
For Vietnamese people, if you marry a religious person, you will have to study the doctrine and prepare to get used to the new way of life.
The role of both families
Maybe your partner likes to visit their parents several times a week, while your partner only wants to visit during the holidays.
Or when you go back to your husband's hometown, he wants to stay for many days, but you only want to stay for a short time and spend time with your parents...
You both need to be mindful of this issue and discuss it with each other beforehand. This requires tact and understanding.
Balance between work and family
You have a habit of spending all your time on work but your partner wants you to spend more time with your family, so conflicts arise.
Or the husband likes to advance, while the wife likes to settle down, without much turmoil, so the two of you disagree.
Therefore, talking to each other about the nature of work in advance to find a balance with your life together will be better for your relationship in the future.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/chong-bi-vo-bao-luc-ngay-giua-dam-cuoi-172241108111639976.htm
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