Ms. Ho, from Zhejiang, China, has been married for 7 years. During their time together, the couple had some disagreements but never had any serious arguments; overall, their life was quite harmonious. However, a few days ago, while taking her son to take a math exam at school, Ms. Ho discovered that her husband was having an affair, and the third person was his colleague.
Secretly investigating, Ms. Ho discovered that the two had been seeing each other for a long time, staying in hotels and traveling together at least a dozen times. Her husband also bought many expensive gifts for his mistress, and even cut corners on money given to his wife to pamper her.
Unable to bear her husband's lies, Ms. Ho made everything public, causing her husband to lose his reputation. In a fit of rage, her husband packed his wife's belongings and sent her back to her mother's house.
Ms. Ho thought that her biological mother would be her support when the storm came, but unexpectedly, the first thing she said to her was: "Your husband chased you away, your parents are extremely ashamed." After that, she asked her to leave the house and go to a nearby motel to sleep.
Ms. Ho thought that her biological mother would be her support when the storm came, but unexpectedly, she asked her to leave the house and sleep in a nearby motel. Illustration photo
When Ms. Ho tried to explain the truth, her mother criticized her daughter: "Because you don't dress up, wear makeup, and are always sloppy, your husband had an affair. Your husband's lover must be very beautiful and sexy, otherwise your husband wouldn't have been moved. Go home, teach your son a lesson, be patient, take care of yourself to be more beautiful, your husband will come back, you won't be divorced by your husband, and your father and I won't lose face because of what the neighbors say."
After hearing these words, Ms. Ho burst into tears and choked out, "Are you really my daughter? " Then she picked up her suitcase and left.
In her dire straits, Ms. Ho decided to share her story on social media, asking for advice. Most netizens were outraged by the mother’s cold, heartless behavior, and especially her demeaning outlook on life:
- "Is what the neighbors say that important? If anything happens in the future, tell your mother to go find the neighbors."
- "What era is this that the husband cheats and then blames the wife";
- "Why do you look down on your own gender and your daughter like that? Your husband is unfaithful and unjust, yet you force your daughter to find a way to please him"...
The price to pay for adultery
broken family
According to the law of karma for adulterers, the first retribution that a traitor must bear is the loss of his family. Just because of temporary pleasure, it is obvious that they will regret losing their family.
Every unfaithful person wants to keep their family and be with someone else. But in reality, this is impossible because of the law of trade-offs. And of course, like stories about the law of karma for traitors, the first retribution according to the law of karma for adultery is that they will lose their originally happy family.
Married people who like "one-night stands" and are interested in strange things... will receive a painful ending, causing disaster for their life and career. Illustrative photo
Career downhill
"Usually, everything has a cycle of cause and effect," Sohu said. Regardless of whether men or women spend time on "romantical" relationships outside, they will not be able to focus on work, leading to a decline in their career.
Moreover, broken marriages affect their spirit, making them not want to make any effort in their careers. Many people have gone downhill after having affairs and broken families.
Disparagement
According to Dusheng, it is very difficult for an adulterer to have a good reputation. It is shameless to commit adultery. Prostitutes generally do not show their actions to others, but instead are secretive and cover up, afraid that their dirty actions will be exposed, tarnishing their reputation and causing people to despise them.
However, "there is no wall in the world", "if you want people to know, you cannot do it yourself", let alone "God gives it", self-deception is not a good thing. "When people are present, trees have flowers", fame is famous, life will not be easy, do not commit adultery!
Lonely in old age
When you get old, the young lovers who pampered you are no longer there when you are sick and weak. They still want your money, but no one is foolish enough to stay by your side to take care of a sick old person.
If both are married and willing to give up everything to have an affair, one side divorces first and the other side still chooses to continue with their family, then the one who chooses divorce will be left empty-handed and will regret it for the rest of their lives.
The other person still chooses family but their married life will not be happy. Both of those traitors will live alone until old age.
When we are young, we think that family is not the most important thing. Because when you are young, you can meet many people and you are healthy. When you are old, you will understand that family happiness is more precious than money and fame.
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