The girlfriend is neat on the first date, is it reasonable for the guy to wear sandals and shorts?

Many readers have sent feedback to Tuoi Tre Online regarding the story of inviting a girlfriend to eat street-side rice with grilled pork on their first date while wearing shorts. The comments section is lively, expressing various views on love.

The photo, posted by the girl in a student group in Ho Chi Minh City, has recently sparked controversy on social media.

You should dress politely on a first date.

The article "First date: Inviting someone to eat street food, finding they're not compatible, should you continue or end it?" on Tuoi Tre Online received many comments from readers immediately after its publication.

Among the responses, some people argued that the first date in a romantic relationship is very important. If the woman has taken the time to put on makeup and dress nicely, the man should also dress appropriately.

The user thie****@gmail.com believes that the beginning is always the hardest, and even without dressing extravagantly or wearing expensive clothes, young people should still be polite and well-groomed because clothing reflects a person's character. The user emphasizes sincerity and respect in choosing a dating location, as this creates the most lasting impression.

"Actually, what you eat isn't important; even going out for snacks is fine. But dressing politely is the minimum requirement. No one tests someone's character by dressing sloppily. The man's choice of clothing revealed both his personality and his lack of respect for the woman," a reader with the nickname Cà bung advised the girl to get to know the man better.

Sharing the same sentiment, reader Tuan Hai commented that women spend a whole week choosing clothes and hours applying makeup, only for their boyfriends to wear flip-flops and shorts, which would certainly be a turn-off. The reader emphasized that some things can be taken lightly, but relationships must be taken seriously.

Respecting yourself is showing respect for the other person. If things go further, find an appropriate time to offer suggestions. This will help both of you feel happy, and from there, find a suitable dressing style when going out together," user dung huynh expressed.

In a serious relationship, no one will judge you by your appearance.

Reader Lucas Tran expressed a contrasting opinion. If the boyfriend is testing her, then it's a clever approach. This avoids the girlfriend demanding 4-5 star restaurants with bills amounting to millions of VND.

Lucas Tran posed several questions: "Do women sitting in upscale restaurants ever think about splitting the bill when paying? Or do they just like to criticize and assume men must pay for their preferences and demands, ignoring their financial capabilities and family backgrounds?"

Reader Vo Thuan expressed his opinion, stating that his initial assessment and wavering reaction upon first meeting the poster revealed a lack of seriousness in her pursuit of love. He believes the girl was only seeking material possessions and superficial status.

"Don't let girls be attracted to you because of your appearance. Be down-to-earth like any other guy, and you'll find your true life partner," Vo Thuan encouraged the young man's "unpretentious" dressing style.

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